A Question for the men... Okay, this is really blunt, but I want to know and none of my friends have experienced anything like this before and frankly I haven't either.
Are you ready? Here goes...
I've been dating a guy who has been having trouble getting hard. I don't know what the problem is and I've asked him if it was me and whatever. He said he doesn't know what's going on. Which is no help, but I believe him. Well, the other night he was kinda hard and tried to put it in (which was weird) , but he actually came. With absolutely no pleasure to me, but I was at least happy he made it that far. I had no idea that could happen. Anyway, why would a guy work so hard at getting me horny and undressed and all of that and then not be ready to go? Wouldn't you prolong the undressing part until you were hard and ready? I'm not getting it on that end and I also don't understand why he can't get hard or all the way hard. Any suggestions or comments would help. Easy on me, I'm feeling a little unsecure with myself and this issue. - Asked by A Life of the Party, Female, 36-45, Internet / New Media |