Ok met this guy online, we hit it off, it was a whole week of phone calls, texts, and aim.
Hot and heavy you know? we met Tuesday great date, we kissed goodbye and then when I got home he was online so I thanked him for a great date and we talked for a little while he said the date had a great ending refering to the kiss, etc. Well the thing is we talked after the date and everything seemed to be ok, however he is not texting and trying to communicate online as much as before. So I don't know you think he is not interested or he jus doesn't see the need to be all hot and heavy like before since we already talked about a second date?

I just read a question that I need explained to me. Maybe I'm just old.

It starts with a man and woman who never speak, never meet, but date online exclusively. What the hell is that? How can you date online exclusively? How is this dating? And what the hell is the point of exclusivity online?

Does this explain why so many people think talking to someone can be called cheating?

Man I'm happy that when I date we actually see and touch each other. Do the two people in this "relationship" need therapy or what?

Mark & I have been having an online relationship for the past few months. Getting to know each other, talking about miscellaneous things, having cyber sex, flirting, etc. We're going on a date very soon & he's dropped little sexual hints here & there in joking ways, I joke back w/him. I wouldn't mind having sex w/him but I guess I'm wondering if it's still considered "first date sex" even though we've basically been dating online? While I know it's okay to have sex on the first date if I choose to, I'm not that type of girl & this doesn't really seem like a first date since we've already done the "getting to know you" phase. Any ideas or suggestions?

Ok a girl I am trying to date more seriusly keeps cancelling our dates even though we have lots of fun chatting online or on the phone. I met her online btw.

We had one date which was pretty good, we talked a lot more on the trip home, and kind of winged the date, but it wasn't bad. She cancelled my two next offers because of rain, then the fourth offer for a second date she cancelled for a long trip out of country. In all this time we've talked a lot online, however she never says 'hi' to me or starts the chat, I do on an online chat thingie....so I asked her if she'd like to do something when she got back and she said sure she'd call me when she got back....she didn't and i asked her if she wanted to do something this weekend and she said she's see. anyways it's been a month or so since the first date and i am really really really thinking she likes my personality/mind but is not physically attracted to me. if a girl likes a guy she'll make time for him right? can i subtly or bluntly ask her if this is the case? or do i have enough clues already...what do you think?

Tonight I had the best date of my life. We met online and had been talking on MSN and the phone for the past couple weeks and decided to meet. We talked about every topic imaginable online and had a strong connection and were extremely compatable, online at least.
Everything just clicked once I picked her up and there were no awkward moments. The evening was sealed with a very sweet kiss. We both couldn't have imagined a better first date. I know there's no such thing as love at first sight, lust definitely, but not love. By the end of the night we decided to date exclusively because the connection we felt to one another was that strong.
I was wondering if anyone had such a strong connection on a first date that you decided to become boyfriend & girlfriend outright. If you have, what was the outcome and do you regret it? Thanks :)

How many of you are for online relationships, how many against? Do you suggest using the age old method in meeting people to date or are you open to trying to meet people online? Just curious. I have a few guys I talk to online & some are interested in meeting me. I've never done the online thing before, so I'm a little skeptical.

i went on a date last friday with a guy i met online (he was new to the online-dating thing). date went well and he called me the next day to tell me he had a great time and "let's talk next week." haven't heard from him yet. what's the deal?

fyi - i will not call him. although i don't think he's a player, he's definitely been around the block!

any insight will be greatly appreciated. thanks.

This is a silly question but im gonna ask it anyway cause im bored.......lol.....her e lately i see my EX b/f online but we don't speak or date any longer...anyway, i have been having a bit of trouble staying online sometimes..so i get booted a few times while im online.Now I noticed my ex b/f leaves and comes back too a few times when i see him online.......is it maybe he gets booted too or is he messing with me cause i know im still on his buddy list still...what cha think?

The question that I always wanted to ask was, after first date who does the onus lie on - re. calling/emailing stating it was a good date?

Ok, we meet online and go on a first date after exchanging a few emails and phone calls. He is not looking for a relationship at this point - but wants to go with the flow. It seemed like a good and simple date. Holding hands was the farthest we went.
In general, I write to say I had great time. However, I read "he is just not that into you" and it said that if he is into you he will make an effort to contact you. It didnt talk about after first date.

Sometimes, towards end of the date men have said-hope to see you or something to hint second date. This time it was sort of subtle. He sells a certain item and he told me he will get me one of those.
I know he went online (dating site)today as I can see the last time he logged.
Well, as per my habit I sent a quickie that I had a great time.
Maybe a mistake.

I'm dating someone I met online for 2 1/2 months. Spent the holidays together and met his family. We're together every weekend and see each other 2-4x a week. He introduces me as his g.f. yet he's profile is still online. I asked him if he still wants to date other women since I see he's still online. He answers in the negative and says he's not active online anyway. So a week passes and he still hasn't taken off his profile. What's up with that? Should I ask him again about it? How should I phrase the question? When?