I think the concept of seduction, perhaps more precisely seducing, has gotten a bad rap. "Seducing a woman" conjures up images of some low-life taking advantage of a drunken, defenseless female. That's too bad because seduction, seducing, being seduced is where passion comes from.

Now, I know that all women (yes, all) like and want to be seduced, even if that's not the word they might use. Maybe it's an act of convincing a woman to do something that she already wants to do, but hesitates to do because she doesn't want to be judged by society. She can then fall back on the "Oh, I was seduced," excuse.

So, I think it's time to take the word back and put it in it's proper place in the mating game. Seducing is using words to tap into emotions and feelings that stir up passion. It is natural and required by most woman. They want the build up to the explosion that seduction brings and what is more, if you are good at it, the act of seduction, she'll probably be back for more.

OK ladies…personal romance novel time. What is the moment of pure sexual seduction you have been dying for the man of your dreams to perform (you know the one shinning night on a white horse on the front cover of those pesky novels that someone obviously is buying)? How does this moment of seduction take place and how close have you come to living it out in real life?

Seduction Systems

If you explore the net you will find various services/sites designed to help men "succeed" with women. These include fast seduction dot com, Doc Love's System, Speed Seduction, Double Your Dating and others. They suggest being cocky/funny, teasing women, making fun of them, making subtle hypnotic comments with a sexual undertone and others. These systems claim that they can build attraction in a woman who is otherwise not attracted to a man.

Have you as a woman ever looked into these systems? Have you ever met anyone who tried to use some obvious "system" on you to try to connect with you? Can a man ever build attraction in you for him, as these systems, claim if none had previously existed?

A Sweet Sarah (Female, San Francisco, 22-25, Fashion) asked:

what is "your" cornerstone of seduction? (the one thing that can never go wrong)

In my opinion WHISPERING is the cornerstone of seduction. You can say almost anything and make it sound sexy when you "whisper it". Sometimes it is what you don't say when you whisper that says it all. For example Whisper: "I can't wait to be alone with you later".

A Thinker (Female, Miami, 36-45) asked:

"But seduction isn’t making someone do what they don’t want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already".

Waiter Rant

Base on this....true or false? is that just an instinct or an Art?

A Rebel (Male, New York, 36-45, Who Cares?) POP'd:

Sigh..

I guess it's time to bury it.

The Lost Art of Seduction.. is dead.
I expect the last nail in the coffin of Chivalry will be driven soon.

Romance, Seduction and Passion were killed by the Hookup, Booty Call and 1-Night Stands.

Quality.. is no more ;(

*RIP*

why would a guy make out with a girl really passionately, and then not go home with her? what if they've done it before?

Do you believe in hypnotic seduction? If yes, why? If no, why?

What are your thoughts on seduction? Anyone here know how to do it?

What is the art of seduction??? To seduce???

An Intellectual Guy (Male, New York, 29-35, Celebrity) asked:

Sexual Seduction??