over the past 2 years I've been exchanging sex stories with different men via email. I never meet them, never give them my real name. Most of them are married and claim to have "sexless marrieges" and that writing me (and whoeverelse) is thier only sexual outlet. My question has 2 parts: 1) Is cyber sex - particularly in story form - cheeting? 2) Why do so many men claim to haev a sexless marriage but upon futher exploration, they reveal thet they do have sex with their wives, just not the way they'd like to...what's up with that?

A Thinker (Female, 29-35, Administrative) asked:

I have seen a lot of posts on A/O regarding sexless-or nearly sexless marriages. It is my opinion that either gender may have this issue in his/her marriage.

What is your opinion on the subject of a spouse who says they are no longer interested in sex?

Just a question. All answers and opinions on the subject are welcome.

Why are there so many sexless marriages?

Are you in a sexless marriage? WHat do you do about it?

Can you survive sexless marriage?

Somebody has introduced the problems some days ago, about many relationships and marriages being sexless, where "sexless" means less than 12 "couplings"/year.
The nice boy / girl syndrome is when he / she are wonderful, devoted partner and the other loses interest in having sex with him.
QUESTION!
- Are you a nice boy / girl and you are also in a sexless marriage?
- Have you ever considered this as a reason or have you better thought it was just "stress"?
- Do you really want to turn into a bad boy / girl to be cared upon by your parnter as it should be, or you better go and look for another one?
- How much this luck of intimacy affected your love?
- Last but not least... have you got an idea of why you are still inside such a sexless relationship? Can you explain to you and to us why are you caught and still remain therein or are you already trying a way out?
Thank you for answering, I will rate everyone tomorrow.

Loveless sex or sexless love? If you had to, which would you choose, and why?

sexless marriage at age of 38, for the past 3 years?

Guys how long would you last in a sexless relationship.

A Life of the Party (Male, 29-35, Who Cares?) asked:

Are you in a sexless relationship? Is everything great just not getting enough sex?

How long do you go w/o it?