When you see a single mom is your first thought "single moms are sluts?" or..what type of impression do single moms give?

I was listening to the radio the other morning and this guy made this ignorant comment "single moms are sluts" but then he later apologized.

why would people even think that?


by the way that is so not true. anyone could be sluts!

My response to Mr. "Stop Dating Single Moms" on the hot 10 list: I don't know what is up with you, but I am so sick of seeing your type of post. You and others who post similar comments really have no clue. If you don't think single moms are worthy enough to date, then fine, don't date them, but otherwise, we really don't give a crap about your ill-formed opinions. Single moms are women, mothers, people, who happen to find themselves not married and with kids for a variety of reasons, some of which they have no control over. It happens. Get over it. No single mother I have ever known has forced her date, f*ck-buddy, boyfriend, whomever, to be a daddy to her children. Most whom I know tend to keep their child out of the dating relationship until it's serious. And even then it's limited. Some single moms behave differently. That's how it goes. But you know what - some guys are nice, and some are dicks. Go figure. Doesn't mean I write them all off.

I seen a question earlier that i commented on about what is the first word you think of when you see a single mom.

Can i just add this. Not just single moms work their ass off. ALL MOMS DO and so all moms should be consider HOT! I mean do they think that moms that are married or whatever just sit on their ass and do nothing. We work just as hard as well b/c to be honest we have a bigger family to support.

When took a year off working after i had my son we could barely make ends meet. Its just as hard in a marriage family than it is in a single family.

I just want to say that ALL MOMS WORK HARD, ARE HOT, ADMIRABLE.

Someone said to much Drama. Only if you let it be drama. then other people said poor choices. Did anyone ever think that maybe at the time it wasnt a poor choice. Or maybe they didnt know. HOW DO PEOPLE KNOW IF THINGS ARE GOING TO BE POOR CHOICES! We dont. So i dont think we should lay all that on single moms. MArried people make poor choices, committed people make poor choices, etc.

I am a KICKASS MOM and i work my ass off. HOW MANY MOMS ARE WITH ME ON THIS! And what kind of mom ARE YOU?

I am MARRIED. AND I WORK. SO, i work just as hard as anyone else. STEP UP MOMS. Its time we get recognized as more than just a drama case or a slut or something like that. There is so much more to us than that. Most single moms i know ARE NO WHERE NEAR BEING SLUTS. The slut is the man that walked out on them.

Ok..does anyone else feel that dating single moms is pointless, I mean If your a single successful guy, Why would you want to date a chic that already has kids..with all the hot single chic's
with no kids available..it makes no sense to date or even worse.. get married, with a single mom, what good can come out of this. I would encourage guys that have something going on with there,lives to not get involved with these single moms..I leads nowhere!!

Do women like single dads as much as us guys like single moms. I mean some guys might not commit to certain single moms.. im saying the sex factor. My fantasy is to fuck a hot mother in her mid thirties. God its just unbearable.

I'm a recently divorced mother of a three year old. I am seeing someone, but have alot of friends who are single moms to for various reasons. Are men scared off by single moms?

What's with the stigma of single moms? So many men on this site and from personal experience says that single moms live in poverty, made bad choices, have too much baggage and/or are damaged goods. Are we just supposed to just abandon our kids because the guy decides he wants out? We can't help if a guy changes and bails. Sorry!

I have talked to this guy a few times and I kind of liked him, however the other day he made a negative comment about single moms, my sister is a single mom and I adore my niece and the fact that she is raising her daughter alone does not change the fact that she is an amazing woman. I am not worried about the guy, but I was wondering how do you guys feel about single moms, is this a reason for not pursuing a relationship with a woman even though everything else is great????

Happy Friday everyone!!!!!

I was reading the top 10 this morning and I find it apalling how many people judge other people without knowing them.

Referring to the assumption that that all single moms are uneducated, drama queens who make "bad choices." It seems that most men wouldn't touch them with a 10 foot pole.

Why is it that when someone makes a racial stereotype everybody gets fired up and angry but when someone makes a gender stereotype it is o.k.?

Not all single moms ended up that way on purpose or by "bad choices." Why do the majority of men on here look down on them, they are people too, I know some childless women that have way more drama than a single mom could ever imagine having but no one condemns them, why?

Y'all talk about single moms like they are some lower form of life, do you think that is fair? In fact the prevailing attitude seems to be that they are only good for a quick f**k and that's it, why?

Just curious.

An Intellectual Guy (Male, 29-35, Who Cares?) POP'd:

Who here thinks single moms are the best. My mother was a single mom, so I have all the respect in the world for them.

Don't disrespect the single moms here on A/O.

There is some girl at work who insults
me, acts like she is "all that", acts
like she is so popular- and yet the truth
is that this single mom is a loser and she
doesn't even realize it . I try to avoid
confronting her and telling her off and what I
really think of her- which would really piss
her off - and then she would try to
get other stooges she knows to support her as well.

It's not really a thing to complain because that
won't do any good but make me look like a winer.

Is the best thing NOt to exchange words with her
and just ignore her. Or should I exchange
words back and let her know how much of a loser
she really is and that she is so stupid to
even realize it or should I exchange
words back and criticize her back and give her
a dose of her own medicine ?