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Dating / 4:09 PM - Saturday March 01, 2008

Cheaters

I'm sure by now you've heard of the reality searies Cheaters. If you suspected your SO of cheating, would you hire cheaters or a PI for more specific evidence? Do you think you could handle it if you did? What would you do otherwise?

- Asked by A Creative, Male, 29-35, Washington, DC, Technical

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sod the pi, id hire a hitman

:o)

- Response by anonymouse32, An Alternative Girl, Female, Who Cares?

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I would NEVER want to go on TV myself. Hell no!

And, I might consider hiring a PI if I didn't want to spend the time and effort but wanted evidence in case he tried to lie.

But, when that's happened to me in the past, I have ALWAYS known it...just get that gut feeling, even before there's ever been suspicious behavior. And, when I've been inclined to gather evidence, I've always been 100 percent successful in figuring it out.

It's kind of a weird position to be in when you do have said proof and have chosen to just sit on it for a while...determine when/how you will present it.

I once knew a boyfriend was cheating...probably the exact moment he CONSIDERED doing so. Just have this sixth sense sometimes with people I'm really close to. Sure enough, he started acting "odd." So...skippity doo dah...Super Sleuth went to town.

I picked a certain moment to calmly confront him. Do you know (girl's name)? "Nope." Have you ever hung around with her? "Nope." *squirming* Never even met her? "Nope."

I'll never forget the look on his face and the beautiful green color he turned when I then tossed some pictures of his pickup parked in front of her home...middle of the night...that I had taken. LOL!!!!! Uh....wanna answer again, dumbass?

- Response by stargazr39, A Guy Critical, Female, Who Cares?, Seattle, Political / Government

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I would never be in a situation with the amount of anger these people have. You have to teach someone how to treat you.

- Response by cubbiegal, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Chicago, Administrative

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I would ask and trust his answer. If it then became obvious that he was cheating, I would ask more seriously.

In answer to your question: I would never have someone else sort out my own problems. I would take advice but I would not let someone pry into my relationship whether or not it was justified.

~dev~ x

- Response by devonette, An Alternative Girl, Female, 22-25, Administrative

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I would never go on Cheaters!

If I wanted to find out if I was being cheated on I would do alittle researchin myself :) I definitely wouldn't want everyone knowing my business!

- Response by leann, A Life of the Party, Female, 22-25, Medical / Dental

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I am more of the I don't want to know type person.
Cheating alone would not be a reason to end the relationship. It might change it, but not end it.

- Response by shyguy14, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Technical

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