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Flirting question
Dating / 11:57 PM - Sunday February 20, 2005

flirting question

hey ladies,

i have a question about flirting. this girl i kind of know, and really want to know a lot more, flirts a little bit with me. i just don't know if she does it with all the guys or if she's just doing it with me cause she likes me.

the flirting is fairly subtle, but, definitely easy for me to notice.

is there a way to tell if the flirting is just flirting, or if the flirting is her way of telling me she likes me.

- Asked by An Intellectual Guy, Male, 22-25, Toronto, Administrative

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Chances are she likes you. Next time she flirts say, "I think you're flirting with me, and I like it." You'll have your answer by the type of response you get. Hope this helps. Good luck!

- Response by mamarebecca, A Career Woman, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?

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She probably likes you. i am trying to get the guy I like to figure out I like him!! Subtly flirting means that it is likely that she likes you because if she flirted with everyone she would be very obvious about it. (I have friends like this and you can usually spot them from a mile a way). A girl is much more likely to be sutle if she actually likes you and is afraid of rejection

- Response by A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Student

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I agree with the other posts, but I have to say...turn things up a notch, take yourself out of your comfort zone and make a gesture that's flirtier than before...initiate somekind of physical contact if you haven't already. You'll know if she's into you by her response.

- Response by saucybetty, A Trendsetter, Female, 29-35, Los Angeles, Other Profession

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yes definitely go with saucybetty
i totally agree

- Response by lindasweetiepie1, A Married Girl, Female, 36-45, New York, Medical / Dental

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Just comment something like "you're teasing!" and see her response..
I tend to flirt w/anyone just beacuse it's who I am. But when a guy flirts back -I love it- and once he casually asks me to lunch or even just to sit with me at lunch (like at work) I get the hint that he's into me a tad more than just a casually-flirt which is cool. So you can go that route :) Let us know how it turns out!


- Response by A Career Woman, Female, 29-35, Administrative

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To some girls flirting is just flirting but to some it actually means something. To flirt with someone you have to be at least a little attractive to them. So my advice would be get to know her better and see what kind of girl she is, and you never know when you get to know her better you might not even like what you see or you might.

- Response by A Trendsetter, Female, 22-25, Los Angeles

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