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| Sex & Intimacy / 5:16 PM - Friday September 08, 2006 |
Tips on LastingSo I sent my man an e-mail with the link to a website I think he should check out on tips to improve prejaculation because we've been together 9 months and he still gets off in a very very short period of time...like 3-6 minutes... and I want to work through this with him. Even during round 2 he gets off quickly..
- Asked by A Career Woman, Female, 26-28, Managerial |
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tell that lazy slacker to hold it man... if he can go 6 minutes.. he can go another 6... believe me.. its not like he's a two dump and pump chump... thats different.... he just likes to get his rocks off without thinkin about you.... i use to do it when i was younger with my ex.. cause i took the sex for granted.... you better believe i grew out of that one... give him a cookie or a trophy each time he goes longer.... its cool that you actually worked with him... my ex girl got tired of that bullshit quick.. i had to learn my lesson the hard way hahaha
- Response by chavis, A Rebel, Male, 22-25, San Jose, Internet / New Media
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How would you feel if your guy sent you "Natural! Herbal Breast Enhancement!!! Buy it NOW!!" emails? I'd be kinda upset.
- Response by greenolive, An Alternative Girl, Female, 22-25, Indianapolis, Hospitality
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It would scream to me that she is sexually dissatisfied. I think this subject would be one better approached in a frank face to face discussion where you could allay his fears by assuring him you are very interested in him and just want to help yourselves (as a couple) work through this issue.
- Response by robertgy, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Halifax, Technical
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- Response by budec, A Player, Male, 26-28, Minneapolis, Technical
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You can help matters. When your guy is about to cum,stick your hand down and squeeze the base of his penis between your thumb and forefinger. He'll quiet down, then you can romp again. Also, make him wear a condom. For what it's worth, this is a very common problem among young men.
- Response by betterbird, A Creative, Male, 46-55, San Francisco, Administrative
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Funny you ask,i saw a study today that said the average guy gets off in 2 to 3 minutes so by your account, your boyfriend is a star!
- Response by eyeguy3038, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Toronto, Medical / Dental
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I am not trying to be mean, but I think it seems kind of cowardly and could even be hurtful to send him an email with such an intimate issue.
- Response by ashton05, An Engaged Girl, Female, 22-25, Teaching
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I don't know they have this in the city ur in but they have a delay spray called "STUD" it prolongs ejaculating too quickly. There's also something called "stone love". But keep in mind, not all places have these things, but I'm sure they're other things that I've never heard of. But to answer ur question, I probably would be pissed if u sent me an e-mail.
- Response by romanticlover007, A Creative, Male, 36-45, New York, Artist / Musician / Writer
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whats the website?
- Response by curious68, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, New York, Other Profession
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I personally take suggestions well, but I understand alot of men don't. What I suggest is that he use other methods of stimulating you until you are ready to orgasm, the move to intercourse. Good Luck!
- Response by mfmcrls, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Medical / Dental
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how would you feel if he sent you an add for a breast enlargement, or for feminine odor wipes? This is a sensitive area for him, don't make a big deal out of it! Tell him that if HE and only HE is worried about it, to see a doctor or something, but don't make him feel innadequate ya know? In the meantime, have him give u oral first, to make sure you're satisfied. Good luck
- Response by dogchain, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 22-25, Student
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obviously I'm not a guy but what I do know is that guys don't generally like getting advice from women especially when it comes to their manhood. it's as if they can't solve their own problems and according to mars venus, men pride themselves on being efficient. if you've talked about it, ask him what he thinks a good solution would be and then tell him you will help him follow thorugh on that solution.
- Response by ebm3, A Trendsetter, Female, 36-45, Artist / Musician / Writer
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