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First Date
First Date / Dating / 11:19 AM - Thursday November 16, 2006
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A Sportif (Female, New York, 26-28, Administrative) asked:


Ok met this guy online, we hit it off, it was a whole week of phone calls, texts, and aim.
Hot and heavy you know? we met Tuesday great date, we kissed goodbye and then when I got home he was online so I thanked him for a great date and we talked for a little while he said the date had a great ending refering to the kiss, etc. Well the thing is we talked after the date and everything seemed to be ok, however he is not texting and trying to communicate online as much as before. So I don't know you think he is not interested or he jus doesn't see the need to be all hot and heavy like before since we already talked about a second date?


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A Trendsetter (Female, 66 or older, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: vertgirl


relax and ingore him until the second date.

the anticipation of meeting you is now over so that is prob why he calmed down on the contacting part.



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A Thinker (Female, Toronto, 22-25, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: snafu


I think you're both still getting to know eachother. You've only been on one date, it went well, you've talked about a second date..

He may be one of those guys who runs on the "1 of your days = 5 of mine" schedules. Try not to overthink things.

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A Thinker (Female, Dallas, 29-35, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: kdtxchic30


Usually this is a good indicator that he is not interested!!! Sorry probably not what your wanting to hear, but people are different in person and what he was feeling online just wasn't there in person. He was being polite.

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An Alternative Girl (Female, 36-45) answered:

Screenname: suess


I think dudes go through periods of hot and heavy and then withdraw for a bit, and then come back to the hot and heavy. They take a breather and go tend to some of their own personal stuff (like motors, etc.) for a bit. Don't bug him about it or he will think you are clingy, but take the time to get some of your stuff done.

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A Thinker (Female, 46-55) answered:


First their was the anticipation of meeting you. Once the two of you met and were in each others company sounds like the chemistry was not their for him to want to continue further with you initiate a second date. If you see him on line then you know he wants to continue "looking for the right one"

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