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Flirting
Flirting / Sex & Intimacy / 4:46 AM - Saturday December 10, 2005
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A Sweet Sarah (Female, London, Who Cares?, Who Cares?) asked:


Flirting


What in your mind would you consider light flirting and more heavy flirting

For me

Light flirting

a smile
eye contact
teasing

Heavy flirting

smiling suggestively
-obvious sexual innuendo
-prolonged touching
-hair touching/stroking


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A Creative (Female, 36-45, Student) answered:

Screenname: fastball


I would have to say that light flirting would be to try to catch the guy's eye, look away when I know he is looking with a little smile on my face, pretend that I like him just as a friend to gauge his response, and to tease him when I would talk to him.
I would say that heavy flirting would be to smile and bat my eyes at him, touch his hand or parts of his body as I laugh at a joke of his or something, sit close to him so that our bodies would touch, play with his hair or buttons or something on his clothing, and teasing him in a way that indicated that I wanted him to get a hint that I liked him.

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An Intellectual Guy (Male, Chicago, 46-55, Political / Government) answered:


You describe it pretty good for both of them.
Maybe you can add licking your lips or teeth
(heavy flirting)

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An Intellectual Guy (Male, 46-55, Military) answered:

Screenname: dancingtongue


Flirting is fun. My favorite thing is to walk into a club or any other social setting wearing a tux, walking like I own the place. Inevitably, several women will come on to me and I will flirt the evening away, usually leaving with a beautiful woman. I use eye contact mainly and, there is a way to do it that gets to women. I call it Seduction 101.

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A Creative (Female, 36-45, Financial / Banking) answered:

Screenname: ezmerelda


geeze seems it's been so long since i have flirted,i am happy beyond the word with my guy and now i don't need to flirt,but anyway,i always found eye contact to be the number one thing in flirting,then smile,make him come over to you,stand really close to him,and touching is great,it makes people feel like they are important.with doing all this it will lead to a sexual inuendo between 2 ppl. best 2 u

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A Career Man (Male, 26-28, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: chinolatinoguy


everything above mentioned. I draw the line with kissing, hugging and of course getting intimate.

for the rest I consider all just 'flirting'

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A Guy Critical (Male, Detroit, 22-25, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: benedictine


Light flirting

1. light physical contact: putting your arm around her or holding her hand.

2. Teasing: making fun of her single life or how saying her little idiosyncrasies are cute.

3. A wink accompanied by a smile

4. Calling the other person babe, honey, etc.


Heavy flirting

1. When you do something with your mouth: Like when a girl plays with around with a cherry in her mouth and lips before she eats it.

2. She'll remove innocuous clothing when you're near. Like when you two are in the library. She'll say it's hot and take off her hoody to reveal her sexy cami with spaghetti straps underneath.

3. Light kisses. If you're a guy, you'll start kissing her hand when saying "Hi" or "Goodbye." If you're a girl, you'll just be laying on the kisses on the cheek.

4. For a girl, just sitting on the guy's lap when you enter the room.

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A Married Girl (Female, Cleveland, 36-45, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: mjk6864


I pretty much agree with your assessment.



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A Thinker (Female, Cadiz, 29-35, Managerial) answered:

Screenname: sonia1976


i agree with what youve said.that would be my definition off the two !! :)

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A Player (Male, St.Louis, 22-25, Student) answered:

Screenname: notu2again


i prefer girls to keep the flirting light until they get our intention, but once you have our attention, just get right down to the point, theres no need to keep it going on and on for weeks, some guys will just give up and move on, i know i never spend longer than two weeks on a girl if i don't see any improvements

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