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How hard is this?
Sex & Intimacy / 11:23 AM - Saturday January 21, 2006

how hard is this?

Is it normal that some guys don't get as hard as others? I mean different degrees of being hard... They are all hard, but some I notice get extremely hard while others look ummm kind of tired sometimes...

- Asked by Female, 36-45

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Of course. Some guys don't have as good bloodflow to that area as others. I think diet, smoking, fitness, and psychological contribute to how hard a guy can get.

- Response by damon8r, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 29-35, Norfolk

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hahaha.. yeah it's normal. I'm guessing it's usually the bigger ones right? a bigger penis requires a lot more blood to fill it up, and it's obviously heavier. but guys that have good pc muscles can keep it up there pretty easy.

on the other hand, some guys do have issues with enough flow to the penis and the more extreme cases are called erectile dysfunction [ED] where it almost never gets up. but yes, there are various degrees to "droopage".

- Response by blizzardofoz, A Guy Critical, Male, 29-35, Who Cares?

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There are varying levels of arousal for the male penis and some men get the full effect while others don't. This could be why you notice that some don't get as hard. It has nothing with what the woman does to get the man aroused, but it does have to do with the amount of arousal that the man will feel.

- Response by fastball, A Creative, Female, 36-45, Student

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heehehe. that is a good question. I think maybe it depends on how horny they are, or when the last time they had sex is ? can't wait to see guys' answers. Are the ones you see tired , very hard at first and then slowly tire out after awhile of having seX? or what

- Response by distressedchick, An Alternative Girl, Female, 22-25, Boston, Managerial

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My ex commented on this one time because a past lover used viagra how hard he became.

- Response by takerulz, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 36-45, Who Cares?

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State of physical fitness, time of day, alcohol, smoking, whether it's round 1 or round 3, arousal level... that can all change the hardness level in one guy... so don't always assume he'll be the same from week to week -or minute to minute!

- Response by silverrunning, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 29-35, Cleveland, Military

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I think it varries depending on how often you get an erection, how hydrated you are, how rested you are, etc. All of the things that affect blood flow effect hardness.

- Response by killroy71, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Denver, Political / Government

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Yeah its normal. Sometimes its with age or ethnic backround. Nothing to worry about. There are different sexual makeups with different people. Also, there is a substance in mountain dew that reduces the erect in erections. Beer, Wine, and Spirits do the same as well. (A freind of mine asked a doctor about it)

- Response by redwithwings, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Who Cares?

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