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Sexless / Sex & Intimacy / 10:48 AM - Friday June 16, 2006
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A Sweet Sarah (Female, 56-65, Who Cares?) asked:


Are you in a sexless marriage? WHat do you do about it?


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A Married Girl (Female, Edmonton, 36-45, Medical / Dental) answered:

Screenname: queenbeenthere


sexless as in none? No....nto enough? absolutely...I just whine and complain....I actually recently developed a 'plan'....I won't bug him for sex or mention it and he has to be the initiator....it's been like two weeks, i'm gonna implode

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A Rebel (Male, Los Angeles, 46-55, Consulting) answered:

Screenname: kravjar666


I wouldn't call my marriage sexless, but it has ALWAYs been an issues. My wife and I just decided to separate. In conversation, she admitted that, on our honeymoon when I reacted badly to her getting ferociously badly sunburned, she lost trust for me. My interpretation of this admissions is that this lack of trust has caused her to be unable to sexually open up to me for the last 22 years.

My kids are 17 and 20, now, and we've worked hard on our marriage for 5 years. But I finally realized that she wasn't serious about getting better. I was constantly put into the 'abusive husband' category in her head, so that improvement is impossible.

I'll be looking for an apartment this weekend.

Good luck and God bless.

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An Intellectual Guy (Male, Washington, DC, Who Cares?, Who Cares?) answered:


LOOK FOR SOME! Ya just can't do without it forever. And B.O.B's wear out. A nice mix is what you need!!!

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A Hip-Hop Guy (Male, Milwaukee, 29-35, Executive) answered:

Screenname: methebe


oh me me me!! I am, I am not sure what I am going to do yet--the question is what are you going to do?

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A Sweet Sarah (Female, Salt Lake City, 36-45, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: cuteblonde1


Use "BOB". Battery Operated Boyfriend.

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A Rebel (Male, 46-55, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: triedit


I stopped pushing my partner for sex to see if she was really telling the truth about a low libido and guess what i am still waiting for her to initiate it as we agreed.Well we are no longer together...so i now have a nil sex life.

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A Thinker (Female, 36-45, Farming) answered:


I have always been the initiator when it comes to sex. So 11 months ago I stopped because I wanted my husband to initiate sex. It's been 11 months since we've had sex. I love sex and I'm the type of woman that would be up for anything. I just don't understand why he won't touch me. We are now seperated.

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A Guy Critical (Male, 46-55) answered:

Screenname: jongalt56


"Don't trust you for 22 years after getting sunburned on Honeymoon" - got the same kind of "I am not sure I can trust you" after the "you don't help enough with: kids, household chores, etc etc" So I helped with the kids, cooked dinner 5-6 nites per week, took he out to nice restaurants the other nites, movies, concerts, world travel etc etc - all just turned out to be BS so I told her at some point I would lose all desire for her, didn't know when that would be but some day it would happen and guess what it did - NO DESIRE for her at all....kids off to college & finishing high school - thank the travel gods for biz travel & women stuck in sexless marriages or between boyfriends.

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