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What is the art of seduction?? ...
untitled / Sex & Intimacy / 6:08 AM - Sunday June 18, 2006
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(Male, 36-45) asked:


What is the art of seduction??? To seduce???


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A Married Girl (Female, Philadelphia, 56-65, Teaching) answered:


Flirting, joking, teasing, and eventually winding up in bed together. Do a search on the internet. I looked up "eye contact" once, because someone wasn't looking at me when I spoke to him. I found a wonderful site that showed you all the phases of potential mating, what leads up to mating. There are opinions and research quotes. Interesting reading. Good luck.

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A Rebel (Male, Atlanta, 22-25, Military) answered:

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No, seduction is mutual, women want to be seduced so it really isn't a "seduction" in the purest sense of the word. All it is is starting a conversation and knowing which steps to take from there. (hint: none of it is logical). If they know and understand that you "get it", you can relax, lean back, and play the most beautiful game of chess that exists.

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, Who Cares?, Who Cares?) answered:

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not merely to seduce, but to seduce in a way that transcends into an artform...

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A Thinker (Female, Atlanta, 36-45, Financial / Banking) answered:

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being confident in who you are as a man and in your own sexuality!!

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A Creative (Male, Boston, 46-55, Other Profession) answered:

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The art of seduction starts as soon as she gets up.
1. Talk to her - ask her questions about her likes/dislikes,
get her to describe her feelings.
2. Do things together - what she likes to do - makes her FEEL
good and FEELS great about herself because you care about her
needs and she thinks if he cares about my needs outside of
bed he will care about my needs in bed. (Unconscious on her
part)
3. Humor is good for a woman because she's FEELING laughter
4. Take her out to dinner - her favorite place


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