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| Sex & Intimacy / 12:26 PM - Thursday August 17, 2006 |
is cyber sex cheeting?over the past 2 years I've been exchanging sex stories with different men via email. I never meet them, never give them my real name. Most of them are married and claim to have "sexless marrieges" and that writing me (and whoeverelse) is thier only sexual outlet. My question has 2 parts: 1) Is cyber sex - particularly in story form - cheeting? 2) Why do so many men claim to haev a sexless marriage but upon futher exploration, they reveal thet they do have sex with their wives, just not the way they'd like to...what's up with that? - Asked by A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Self-Employed |
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I think cyber sex is like trying a weaker drug....you get a taste for it and then want more...a bigger rush and next thing you know you are having phone sex then meeting! If someone REALLY knows what they are doing in cyber, they can make you feel incredibly turned on....it is only natural to wonder what they sound like....look like, etc. So while I don't think of cybering as cheating, I DO think it is something you shouldn't do if you are involved seriously.
- Response by kanaka, A Life of the Party, Male, 46-55, Dallas, Executive
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1. Sharing stories is not cheating. It's like having a dirty pen pal.
- Response by kravjar666, A Rebel, Male, 46-55, Los Angeles, Consulting
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I personaly don't think that cyber sex is cheating, I've done it many times, with my s/o knowing, and she has as well...maybe more along the lines of entertainment, such as watching porn or looking at girlie mags. or porn sites. I would think that those who make the claims you're talking about, do so as part of the fantasy they are fulfilling by exchangeing emails with you. That's just my opinion.
- Response by robbie762, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, Who Cares?, Who Cares?
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