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First Date Connection
First Date Connection / Sex & Intimacy / 1:29 AM - Friday September 01, 2006
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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, Thunder Bay, 26-28, Other Profession) asked:


Tonight I had the best date of my life. We met online and had been talking on MSN and the phone for the past couple weeks and decided to meet. We talked about every topic imaginable online and had a strong connection and were extremely compatable, online at least.
Everything just clicked once I picked her up and there were no awkward moments. The evening was sealed with a very sweet kiss. We both couldn't have imagined a better first date. I know there's no such thing as love at first sight, lust definitely, but not love. By the end of the night we decided to date exclusively because the connection we felt to one another was that strong.
I was wondering if anyone had such a strong connection on a first date that you decided to become boyfriend & girlfriend outright. If you have, what was the outcome and do you regret it? Thanks :)


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A Sweet Sarah (Female, Chicago, 29-35, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: almostfamous1973


Yes, my bf and I met online about 16 months ago, and talked for weeks and eventually met. By the time we met we were already so comfortable together that the first date was so relaxing and at ease. We have been together ever since. Exclusive from the start, and we love eachother a ton. I dont regret a moment

Congrats to you by the way.

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A Mr. Married Guy (Male, Frankfurt, 36-45, Political / Government) answered:

Screenname: luvbuck


very similar when i met my wife

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A Hippie Chick (Female, Atlanta, 36-45, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: suthrnbelle


Yes! We'd been talking at work and on the phone for a couple of weeks. On our first date, he asked me to stop dating the other guys I was dating, and to belong to him and no one else. It's been a year now, and I wouldn't trade it for anything.

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A Thinker (Female, 29-35, Executive) answered:

Screenname: foxy4net


I once met a man who I seen every now and then...we didn't chat on line But I always made an effrot to say hi when I seen him here and there. One night when I was available I ran into him and we have never been separated ever since then.. We married 5 months later and have three babys....don't let that scare youre socks off! He is my soul mate...I say kudos for fiding her if that if that's what you ae feeling....update....up date...update!

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A Thinker (Female, 46-55, Medical / Dental) answered:

Screenname: angelgirl0224


I`m not sure you want to know about mine.

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A Thinker (Female, Atlanta, 36-45, Financial / Banking) answered:

Screenname: georgia000


Great connections are always what the doctor ordered. I have had some myself, and on a few occasions once the honeymoon was over, we decided it would be best not to see each other on a romantic level. But we have still remained friends.

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A Thinker (Female, Baltimore, 46-55, Administrative) answered:


It did happen to me on my last date such as yours of meeting online and talking on the phone and online. When we met in person we had a good connection and the date ended with him surprisingly giving me two little kisses. I was mesmerized a bit, but cool. We hooked up later and 'so he said' months later, we definitely were a couple. He traveled a lot for his job, but I did get to see him at least twice a month last year from February to November. Then he left for a six month assignment relocated to another state. We kept in touch constantly with him calling me about every two days, email and I felt so wonderful and special that I had found someone who I thought really loved me. This year things kind of changed, slowed down a bit and he started to seemingly get me mixed up with someone else which I did bring to his attention - of course the denials. I then discovered that he was still searching for women on the same dating site we met on. I signed up as a new user and sent him a message and he answered and gave his name, cell phone number, and a new email address that I had never known he had. He also said to this person that 'it seems that we may have some things in common' call or email me. I was shocked, floored, hurt, angry, all of that.......I calmly sent him an email message to let him know that I was the one he contacted and not a new woman. Of course he lied, said that he had never renewed his membership on this site and does not know how an email got to him, but that he knew that it was me. So after being with someone who indeed was super supportive of me, always checking to see if I was alright, to find out how my day was, to tell me to always keep smiling, etc., he became another bastard dogg, setting up women, probably in various states that he had to work in awhile for assignment, and when he visits those states - thats his woman for that time period.

I will find someone else again one day that hopefully will be true to me only and won't feel the need to date behind my back like an old dog!

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A Life of the Party (Male, 36-45, Technical) answered:

Screenname: jeepndude


I met my wife online. We talked for a few weeks and on the first date I knew she was it. We were married less than a year later and that was 6+ years ago. It happens.

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