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Cheaters suck at life
cheaters suck at life / Dating / 6:35 PM - Sunday November 19, 2006
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A Player (Female, 22-25, Student) asked:


I hate cheaters. I have never been cheated on, so don't think that I feel this way out of bitterness.
To me, cheaters are the lowest of the low. I will not be friends with someone who does it, because if they don't value their closest relationship, there is no way I can trust them either.
Their word, and therefore their friendship, is worth NOTHING.
Just thought I'd put that out there.


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A Player (Female, Toronto, 22-25, Technical) answered:

Screenname: jinco1


you couldnt trust them even as friends.

my ex best friend cheated on her boyfriend who was also my best friend (awkwardddddd). After that I found out she had been backstabbing me for about a year.

what a bitch.

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A Guy Critical (Male, Ottawa, Who Cares?, Student) answered:

Screenname: eyesofice


I agree 100%, I'll freeze in hell before I ever commit adultery.

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A Hippie Chick (Female, 29-35, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: bourbon


I agree, I was friends with this woman once and she kept trying to justify seeing a married man, talking about how happy they both were, I was sick of it, so I said "why don't you call his wife and see how she feels about it?" That was the end of the friendship, but I say good riddance. She probably would have been hitting on my boyfriend next.

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An Alternative Girl (Female, 26-28, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: gbanga


I LOVE cheaters!! i think they are lovely caring honest!! amazing ppl.

weirdo

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An Alternative Girl (Female, Edmonton, 18-21, Student) answered:

Screenname: freakyinsomniak


I honestly have to say that I dissagree with you. You also have to look at why they cheated. Who they cheated on. What he/she may or may not have done to them. Also, you have to look at the other person, the one that the cheater cheated with.
There's so many aspects to a story, if you are in an abusive relationship, or if you are in a relationship where you do not get any attention. And I mean ANY attention at all, then is that really their closest relationship?
I'm sorry if this offends you. But I just needed to say that you need the whole story before you judge.
If the person was cheating for something new, then yes, feel free to hate him/her. If the person was cheating because they see no other way to effectively get out of the relationship, then you can't say that they aren't trustworthy. Wrong, yes, they made a mistake, yes, but not necessarily untrustworthy. Alot of cheaters cheat once, then feel horrible about it and never repeat their mistake.
Again, sorry if this offends you.
~*hugs*~

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A Thinker (Female, 18-21, Student) answered:


im sure u will change yr mind sometime. i used to be the same way u are. thought cheaters were disgusting pigs who were the filth of the earth and needed to burn in hell. etc etc. but..then i did it. the last thing i thought i would ever do. there were reasons for it, i didnt hide it or stay with my bf..bu tit was wrong. and i learned many things from it. dont be so judgemental. u dont know why ppl do what they do, but they have their reasons. repeated cheaters tho...sigh. thats another story.but seriously, someday u may surprise yourself.

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A Thinker (Female, 46-55, Administrative) answered:


I completely agree. I have been cheated on, and you NEVER recover, ever. It is painful and deep. When the person you love and desire can get it up for someone else it hits a nerve unlike any other. I hope you never do go thru it...

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A Rebel (Male, 22-25, Student) answered:

Screenname: youzerfriendly


If you're happy and content in your life and everything's perfect, I'm very happy for you. But not everyone is the same. Everyone is different and every situation is different. I agree that usually there's a way around cheating, and it's not unavoidable, but it's VERY easy to do. Just because you're married/with someone doesn't mean there's not someone else out there who can't love you better or differently and that's a very intriguing idea for some people. Don't judge someone unless you've been in their exact situation and know ALL of the factors they're experiencing. Chances are if you were put in their shoes, 9 times out of 10 you'd do the same thing.

I can attest to this personally because I've cheated on my girlfriend of 2 and a half years (about a year ago). She didn't leave me, but she was devestated. She didn't understand how I could have feelings for someone else. Then, about 7 months later, whoops, guess what happened? She got a big fat slice of humble pie, and she made out with him. She's a bit more understanding now. Walk a mile in thier shoes, they go off at the mouth about your disgust. Thanks.

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