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Cheater / Dating / 6:20 AM - Saturday January 27, 2007
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A Player (Female, San Jose, 46-55, Who Cares?) asked:


Are you sure cheaters are always cheaters?

Maybe the only true love can change them?

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A Life of the Party (Male, 36-45) answered:

Screenname: jayeshdewana


Not necessarily , a person does have the ablity to reform, and true love acts as a catalyst, it also helps the person to realize his/her mistake and would know how much pain and anguish was caused

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A Life of the Party (Female, Los Angeles, 26-28, Retired) answered:

Screenname: sexyasnpinay


cheaters always a cheater
i do hope that they will find true love that will chnage them.

good post

thnaks

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A Thinker (Female, 36-45, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: busyb704


I think people don't cheat if they are fulfilled in the relationship they are in.

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An Intellectual Guy (Male, Cincinnati, 36-45, Teaching) answered:

Screenname: brandon35


yes. I believe true true love can change them

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An Engaged Girl (Female, Charlotte, 36-45, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: cryren8972


When I say once a cheater, always a cheater...I'm typically referring to the same relationship. In other words, if he cheated on you once, then he's going to do it again. I think cheaters tend to NOT fall in love or have respect for others' feelings as much as people who don't cheat. If you're not happy in a relationship, then get out of it and sleep around all you want, don't hurt someone and their self esteem in the process. I would have to say that yes, I believe there are people with cheating tendencies...I also believe that there is hope at SOME point they could change, but it's usually not without counseling or some sort of life altering situation.

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A Married Girl (Female, Miami, 29-35, Home Maker) answered:

Screenname: anonymouse32


true love? no

realising the devastation they cause and vowing to permanently change, yes

:o)

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A Cool Mom (Female, 46-55, Home Maker) answered:

Screenname: verycoolmom


yes 4 the most part. if u r seeing someone that is cheating then u r cheating nd if u get the highest thrill from that u need help.. men wil treat women the way they allow thmselvs to b treated stop. hes only gonna hurt uemail verycoolmom if u want to hear more

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, Edmonton, 29-35, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: alirhen


a cheater is someone who is able to find beauty in more than one face...until one of the millions on earth totally sends the signal that they are the only one for them....and the odds of that special one finding the other are very very slim since we can't all travel the world in that search...so i guess maybe a cheater can always be a cheater....

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A Thinker (Female, 66 or older) answered:

Screenname: betty1941


well for an example i found out my husband cheat on me after was married one year .i gorgave him .then he went to viet nam .found picture of him & woman in sex postion .ask him .he denide it .that time were three kids then . tought decision .[stay or not ].i did .[was in army ].then i sences there were others .like one trip he made .got letter from her .ask him again ,still denide it..hes a flirt .likes attention others give him .he still flirts & mabe he has more affairs .my answer yes to your question .i wish i dump him after first time .now in 65 no places to go .cant work [have lupus astma & several other illness ..i check his cell phone & truck ..he works with all woman but one male..maybe your be lucky then i .good luck .

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An Engaged Girl (Female, 18-21, Who Cares?) answered:


I was a cheater for a long time.
never happy in any of my relationships.
always looking for more, but always in the wrong places.
never worrying about who im hurting when i cheated or what would be the effects of my actions....
then i met my husband to be and it all changed.
ill admit that when times got rough i thought about it, but instead of running off and sleeping with the nearest guy.
i thought about what it would do to us and the thought of not having my fiance' killed me. and made me stick it out...
so yes i think that true love can change cheaters.
i was once a cheater but im not always going to be one.
sorry for rambling...
hope it helps!
~a very happy (and faithful) girl from indiana!!

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An Engaged Girl (Female, 18-21, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: happiestaround


i was once a total and complete cheater.
no relationship or person could tie me down.
i didnt care how my actions effected anyone.
then i fell in love and found happiness at home and all my cheating ways disapeared.
trust me when times get rough sometimes i still get the urge.
but i never do it.
the thought of losing my fiance' breaks my heart.
so yes i do believe true love can change cheaters!!!

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