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All alone
all alone / Body & Self-Image / 10:44 PM - Thursday February 01, 2007
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A Thinker (Female, Seattle, 26-28, Who Cares?) asked:


hey i just need so kind words i'm all alone my husband is out in the feild for 2 weeks 'ARMY' and i know noone here and i'm kinda scared i hate being alone


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A Career Woman (Female, 36-45, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: chattinchick



Aww...can you get a pet?

It's tough being home alone, I know! Especially if you don't know anyone.

It's nice to come home to a happy face every day even if it's a fuzzy face :o)

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A Father Figure (Male, 56-65, Therapist) answered:

Screenname: theoldguy


Two things, first you are a courageous young lady. Hang in there, 2 weeks is a short time. You can do it. Secondly, you have a good man that is willing to serve like your hubby. We will keep both of you in our prayers for strength and perseverance. And you got bunches of people here who can keep you going... Laugh with us, interact with us, and the time will fly.

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A Trendsetter (Female, 29-35, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: muffincakes


I keep a butcher knife between my matress and box spring, and a base ball bat next to my bed. I have a giant guard dog, and another dog that serves as an alarm to wake the big guy up. My husband goes out of town alot for work, and it hepd me sleep at night.

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A Career Man (Male, Who Cares?, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: dreamguide66


get a animal. they help.

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, 29-35) answered:

Screenname: schmuck169


You're going to be fine. These 2 weeks will be over before you know it. And I bet you'll make some friends real quick...you look like a nice person.

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, Chicago, 29-35, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: hobo


You don't have children or family you can visit or stay with for a bit? It will be alright. My friends fiancee also gets worried.

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A Sweet Sarah (Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: wolfspirit


hey hun....

sorry that you are all alone and in a new place, I can't say that I know how you feel cuz I don't :(

Your hubby will be home before you know it....Tomorrow, go rent you some new movies as that will help to pass your time, and try not to dwell on the lonliness...

I wish ~snowkatcher was around, He could tell you a good joke, and lift your spirits...He has some Awesome Smiles to share when people need a lift...

just jump in on the board and answer some questions, and before you know it.....2,3,4 or more hrs will fly by...

It will be ok, and we will be here for you when you need to just have someone to talk to or even listen to *READ actually..

*hugsssssssss

~wolfie

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A Guy Critical (Male, Seattle, 46-55, Managerial) answered:

Screenname: bookman


Maybe you should get to know some of the other wives. It can be incredibly supportive. Until then, a cat or small dog might be a good idea.

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A Hippie Chick (Female, 46-55, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: padme


Hi Sweetie:)
Just keep yourself busy and the time will pass quickly.
Be brave and try to meet some new people.
At night, leave a nightlight on,it won't disturb your sleep but will be a comfort.
I like to have a fan on at night.It provides a 'white noise'that blocks out other noises.
Pets are a great comfort.If you aren't allowed a cat or dog where you live,a hamster or a little bird or even a fish is good.
Be brave and learn to love yourself.When you love yourself you can entertain yourself,take care of yourself, and you will NEVER feel scared or lonely again:)
Sleep tight sweetie:)

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A Thinker (Female, Boston, 36-45, Medical / Dental) answered:

Screenname: angellilli


I know just how you feel. My ex was in the navy and was gone for 6 months at a time. It's painful and very lonely in the beginning but you have to try to keep yourself busy and you will realize that the time really does go by fast. good luck. Look me up if you feel the need to talk.

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A Thinker (Female, 46-55, Home Maker) answered:

Screenname: willard215


I'm with you, I mean I'm not scared, but, I am very lonely, and my husband is not in the service, he is in a drug treatment bootcamp, but, just because it's not that instead of the other, does'nt mean that I don't miss him just as much. I really do, You'll make it though, it'll be okay, and when he comes home, the both of you will feel as if your starting all over again. How long have you been married? My husband and I have been married for a year now, and he is a great man,but he has this one problem, and it's a major problem, hopefully, he can get it right this time, he is my other half, and it feels as if my right arm is missing. Feel free to post me whenever you want too, Okay? Take Care.


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