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Whats the deal?
Sex & Intimacy / 4:10 PM - Monday February 19, 2007

Whats the deal?

A couple weeks ago I went out on a date with this guy and the date went horrible because he was boasting on the phone to his friend about his date to the cocktail party for the next night. Also he didn't pay for my salad and diet coke at Red Robin,when he did ask me out. I wasn't interested in another date. But he has continuelly chatting with me online. He was a little jealous that I went out on another date with a different guy. I'm just interested to know why he keeps talking to me online..does he think he has a second chance,or is he just being friendly? I'd be interested to know what people think.

- Asked by lutegurl, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Seattle, Student

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Did you point out to him that he discussed another date while out on a date with you. Sounds like he might be playing games to get your attention. Who in there right mind would get upset about you going out on a date when he was talking about another while out with you. It's best just to move on. If he keeps on, just point out the hypocracy.

- Response by juandontbeg, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 29-35, Charlotte, Self-Employed

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I think friendly/trying to get a second chance, cause he knows that you went out with another guy so he wants to see if you will go out with him again.

- Response by rolle, A Career Woman, Female, 22-25, Student

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forget about him. the fact that he didn't pay for your dinner and was rude being on the phone while you were on the date with him? that guy is rude, ill mannered, insensitive, arrogant, self centered, etc. need i say more? i'm shocked that he had the balls to even contact you afterwards. no wonder the dude is still single.

- Response by azenqt7, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, New York, Who Cares?

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He's trying to get laid.

- Response by daglinch, A Creative, Male, 36-45, Teaching

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I am a little confused about the boasting part. Did he ask you out? If so and he did not pay then he is cheap. Do you like him or not? If so, see him again, if not block him.

- Response by butternutbisque, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?

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maybe he thinks he could get another chance but it depends on what kind of coversation hes making online, youll know soon enough if you keep talking to him

- Response by stinkymon, An Engaged Guy, Male, 36-45, New York, Who Cares?

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The question that needs to be answered is, do you want to GIVE him a second chance? He sounds like a jerk. You should dump him and find a good guy who pays when he asks you out, and who doesn't disrespect you by talking on the phone during the date about ANOTHER date!

- Response by tomb12qb, A Jock, Male, 36-45, Norfolk, Military

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it depends on the guy

- Response by crazy1, A Life of the Party, Male, 29-35, Dusseldorf, Science / Engineering

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cuz he hopes to get laid...

- Response by sherocks, A Creative, Female, 29-35, Dallas, Internet / New Media

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I'm interested in wondering why you continue to respond to him?

If you aren't interested in him stop talking to him. He obviously thought the date went fine so he probably would like another date, if you are still chatting with him WHY are you??? Just ignore him.

- Response by A Life of the Party, Female, 29-35, Boston

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sounds like he thinks you are now a member of his 'stable'...

erm, just wondering, if he was so rude and cheap, why are you still talking to him online? you don't have to be his buddy, you know, your time is precious and it doesn't sound like he deserves your attention.

- Response by canary, A Creative, Female, 29-35

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