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FWB.. sorry not tonight
FWB.. sorry not tonight / Sex & Intimacy / 3:09 PM - Sunday April 08, 2007
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A Hip-Hop Guy (Male, 36-45) asked:


I was talking with one of my buddies last night as we're watching the game. He gets a text from his FWB... he texts back that he's not up for it.

For those who've had a FWB, did you always go over when your FWB wanted you?


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A Thinker (Female, 36-45, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: busyb704


not always. sometimes you are busy doing other things and aren't available on demand.

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An Engaged Girl (Female, 29-35, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: almostsinful


not always. there were just some times (rarely though) that i wasn't in the mood.

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A Guy Critical (Male, 22-25, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: greatest


depends, on how horny i am and if I like fuckin her

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A Hippie Chick (Female, 18-21, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: youngandsweet


i always thought that whole paradigm was kinda strange. i guess im just not a FWB kind of girl :/



and im not complaining

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A Player (Female, 18-21, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: mistresswench69



Once. My FWB was excatly that, a friend. He wanted to have sex, but I knew the only reason he did was because he was very depressed due to some drama involving his Ex that he's still half in love with. I came over, but I didn't fuck him. I talked to him. What he needed wasnt a fuck, he needed a friend.

No, I don't have "feelings" for him. I just think people should be there for their friends, regardless of their dynamic.

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A Life of the Party (Female, 36-45, Executive) answered:

Screenname: lovesgoldens


I had an FWB before I got married ...Either one of us could call at any time and know that we wouldn't be turned down.
If he was busy with friends , he'd come by later.

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A Career Woman (Female, 22-25, Student) answered:

Screenname: rolle


I would think the whole point of a FWB is to have sex when the other person wants it. I guess you could say no if your not feeling it.

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A Sweet Sarah (Female, Indianapolis, 29-35, Food Service) answered:

Screenname: cutie29400


iv'e only had 2 fwb's in my life,but usually we did not turn the other one down,but it did happen a few times like we were at work or something like that.so we'd meet up later on,or come by the other one's house late at night and surprise em!:)

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A Thinker (Female, Leeds, 22-25, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: nico88


I'm suprised you have FWB's in your 40's thats stretching the definition a bit

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A Thinker (Female, Boston, Who Cares?, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: piscesrising


Yes, but not because it was expected; I always went because I always wanted to!

Oh, and for Nico...what's wrong with people having FWBs in their 40s? How, as you said, is that "stretching the definition"? Sheesh.

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A Cool Mom (Female, Cleveland, 29-35, Student) answered:

Screenname: morticia


not always. sometimes you just can't, especially if the fwb has a significant other. maybe that person is at work or maybe they just don't want to. it's okay to not want to. plus, if you see your fwb too often, either one of the parties may start to get other ideas.

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A Sweet Sarah (Female, Las Vegas, 36-45, Therapist) answered:

Screenname: lazvegzchk


Never had one...but if I did...to not turn each other down would be the whole point right?

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