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Playing hard
playing hard / Dating / 2:32 AM - Tuesday May 22, 2007
(Female, 22-25) asked:


How do you play hard to get with a guy and succeed?
How do I get HIM to ask Me out?
What signs do I look for if he's interested when I'm playing hard to get?



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An Intellectual Guy (Male, Los Angeles, Who Cares?, Who Cares?) answered:


I am not sure if you are looking for an answer from a guy. But personally I don't think 'playing hard to get' is a good idea to get a guy.

Of course it all depends on the situation and the type of guy you are dealing with. But generally if you are really interested in a guy, you should show him some signs that you are interested, instead of playing hard to get. While some guys may find you more interesting if you play hard to get, some may back off and never dare to approach you again. I don't know if this is what you want.

Good luck and all the best!

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A Player (Male, Toronto, 22-25, Science / Engineering) answered:

Screenname: playaarrow


It's like an art. You've got to be a psycho genius to pull this one off. First thing you need is knowledge, full knowledge, and then use it against him. See wats missing in his life, and try to complete it.

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A Guy Critical (Male, Dublin, 36-45, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: vapo


You're a woman so you already know how to play this dumb game.

Good God, and women wonder why men constantly think you're playing games with us?

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A Father Figure (Male, New Orleans, 29-35, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: razormaze01


You could walk down the street with a sign on your neck that said the world was gonna end, bet you still pick up on a guy.

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