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Dating / 1:12 AM - Sunday May 27, 2007

When you are just starting to date someone, who you did not meet online but who you know has done on

When you are just starting to date someone, who you did not meet online but who you know has done online dating, is it wrong to check his online profile to see if he's "active"? (I just did this, saw that he is "online now", and am wondering whether to be hurt and/or to mention it.)

- Asked by Female, 46-55

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why don't you disguise yourself with a screenname and get into where he is by doing a member search and somehow get him to talk to you . if you succeed , and if he is not being true to you PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DON'T STAY WITH HIM !!! He may say , if you do confront him that he was just goofing off , or he was bored , etc . If he has nothing to do then why is he not on the phone or out with you . But , if you do get to disguise yourself and end up having a conversation with him when asking his status , some how ( if he says not dating )find out the last time he went on a date ( to see if he is going to include his date with you ) . If he can't be honest with a stranger then how can he be honest with you ?

- Response by wftbb5, A Thinker, Female, 29-35, Home Maker

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Have the two of you decided to date one another exclusively? Or are you both able to date others since you say you just started to date him? It sounds like he is still keeping his options open and how did you find out he was into online dating?

- Response by hulagirl55, A Sportif, Female, 46-55, San Francisco, Who Cares?

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It may sound wrong, but its no worse than what he is doing: Make a fake profile and talk to him online! and by all means,DO NOT let him know it is you! Try it and see what happens!

- Response by ready2wed, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Home Maker

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