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Help / Sex & Intimacy / 5:29 PM - Monday July 09, 2007
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(Male, 18-21) asked:


I have a problem. I can not get a hard erection when having sex with my girlfriend.

I sometimes wake up with a hard on. I get hard ons when i'm alone. I get them when i'm with her but in public or we aren't about to have sex.

But when it's time i won't get up or its semi-hard.

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A Career Woman (Female, 29-35, Self-Employed) answered:

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There is something going on here, as I'm sure you already realize.....as difficult as it is for a guy to do this: Go see your regular Physician for an exam.

This could be something physical, it could be psychological, it could be something else entirely...but it must be cecked out.

I know it sounds cliched, but have you considered performance anxiety?..... get a physical to rule out anyting from that direction and then maybe an appointment with a counselor to get to any emotional roots.....

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An Intellectual Guy (Male, 29-35, Who Cares?) answered:


E.D. can happen at just about any age and it comes in a variety of forms. You might want to consult your doctor about it.

Sometimes your mental attitude/self image can cause sexual problems or there's a problem with the relationship and its causing it especailly if you can get erect by yourself.

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An Alternative Girl (Female, 36-45, Administrative) answered:

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Viagra.

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