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| Sex & Intimacy / 8:57 PM - Saturday August 11, 2007 |
I don't get it .......do you ?Has anyone noticed how quick people are to call men CHEATERS on here.......if they do one thing out of the norm by not calling or not having a cell phone then they are married and no good cheaters...sometimes people are so judgemental that it scares me and I have known plenty of women cheaters in my time actually more than men.....am I the only one that feels like this ? Is there no one you can trust in the world anymore or should one always have their guard up ? I am beginning to think relationship are just not worth the pain and trouble of weeding out the liars and the cheats !!!!! - Asked by Female, 46-55 |
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You are right in one very big respect, being a cheater and liar is NOT tied to a gender. Women, wanting to be 'equal' have gone way past middle ground to be worse than most any guy about screwing around. But when it occurs they are often portrayed as enjoying freedom or expressing themselves. There is no difference between a man or a woman who breaks vows to have sex with someone else. I sometimes get that dejected fatalist viewpoint that there is virtually no woman out there who will appreciate a man who is committed completely to her and able to reciprocate that loyalty. But I believe in LOVE, not just little love, but BIG LOVE. And I think that when it happens all the pain and sadness felt on the way to that point will be worth it when I have the real thing. I know that is who I am and it can not be true, it just CAN'T be true that I am the only person on earth with that mindset and seeking the same. So until that day, I will keep trying, keep being hurt but tomorrow is a new day and I will be here to give my all in case the one for me crosses my path.
- Response by rhawkman, A Guy Critical, Male, 46-55, Technical
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You will find what you seek......if you think everyone is a cheater you will find cheaters
- Response by meowmeowww, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, San Francisco, Technical
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It is scary. But there are good ones out there, believe me.
- Response by italiangypsy, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Philadelphia, Other Profession
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I agree with you 100%. Women cheat just as much as men do. It is really hard to find anyone anymore that you can trust. I'm not sure how we can weed out the liars and the cheaters. I guess that is why so many people finally get a divorce because they have someone that cheated on them or they are tired of not being able to trust the persont they are with.
- Response by A Life of the Party, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?
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I am very traditional, my first husband was bad. I stayed and wanted my kids to have normality. I made more money than him. I could of easily left and afford a better life style with just my children. I chose to leave someone who cheats. I meet another man, and being the traditional women I am, I take good care of him. Six years later, I find out he has been cheating for atleast 5 years. I think he was with me because I had a little money. Men are out for themselves. I have to wonder if more women are turning to other women for loyalty.
- Response by cheribono, A Thinker, Female, 46-55
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in today's age, cheaters ARE the norm.
- Response by busyb704, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Other Profession
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No one will defend men who cheat....
- Response by hrdmn10, A Father Figure, Male, 46-55, Other Profession
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