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Sex & Intimacy / 10:47 PM - Sunday August 12, 2007

So, I must ask, would a man ever get bored with a woman who wants sex all the time and is agressive

So, I must ask, would a man ever get bored with a woman who wants sex all the time and is agressive and unsubtle about it?

I only ask because my general style of seduction tends to be along the lines of "You. Me. Bed. Now" , throwing him down on the nearest soft surface, and having my way with him. Most of the foreplay I do to him because turning him on is a huge turn on for me.

Should I try for a more sublte kind of seduction? Should I let him take over more often? It is not in my nature to be patient or submissive, but I'm willing to try anything.

Should I swtch things up?


- Asked by mistresswench69, A Player, Female, 18-21, Who Cares?

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It's always a bad idea when you stop doing what you want, and start doing what you think other people want to see.

- Response by bigj, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 22-25, Montreal, Student

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I believe an equally amount of play is healthy... You can be aggressive and take over but don't forget he would probably like to do the same at times also. I wouldn't go as far as mapping it out and having certain days to where you are the aggressive one and then the days he should be... But I would say that being submissive at times not only benefits him but also yourself.

- Response by theshyone8, An Engaged Girl, Female, 26-28, Managerial

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as exciting as that may be,a man will get bored after awhile.
yes...switch things up.hopefully hes up to speed! haha!


- Response by baldfatboss, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Portland, Technical

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Why would I get bored of that? That seems to be my style, too!

- Response by micro420, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 29-35, San Francisco, Technical

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It has been said so many times that the originator's name has been lost in the swirling winds of time. It is, and I quote: "Variety is the spice of life." Never the less, in your case I think the requirements of variety have already been met!! LOL

For reinforcement, I had a seven year fling with a women I would describe in the very same words you used to describe yourself. She was impatient, disliked any delay, was fiercely experimental, (loved giving me hand jobs while sucking the juice out of me, oops that was a little early), would do many things (the variety) to incite me to higher standards (**whoooeee**) and couldn't wait to kneel over my face and hug the headboard for balance, LLLOOOOLLLL.

And i surprised myself by keeping up with her. It surprised her as well! We went to Copper Falls State Park in the fall and never made the entire walking loop, haveing to stop and lean over the railing to view the river while I porked her from the rear. Unbelievable. On the way home in the car, she stripped in the front seat and stroked off while I drove and tried to stay on the road!!! When I finally pulled over, she gave the best head I had ever gotten in my life, and that was the begining. Whew.

Did I get bored? No. I had made the mistake of stepping outside my marriage and her family got really pissed at me. To save her relationship with her family, we agreed to mutually bust it up.

- Response by rekkonball, A Guy Critical, Male, 66 or older, Retired

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Being attacked is awesome, but gettin to be the attacker is fun too...alot of fun.:-p I am blessed with a wide variety of options with my wife.

- Response by painter3459, A Creative, Male, 46-55, Self-Employed

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If that's all there is to her, then yes, eventually he'll get bored -- there's no challenge to it. But it would probably take a while. For your own variety, try a slower seduction and see what happens. For example, when spending an afternoon or evening in a public setting, send unmistakable signals of how much you want him, but make him wait. It'll drive both of you nuts.

Besides, this will keep YOU from getting bored, too.

- Response by jblonde711, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 29-35, Salt Lake City, Administrative

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Female 34 I think that you should switch up sometime because you don't want to get bored in your relationship because being please plays a big part in a relationship. Also if he isn't fast enough then girl kind doing your thing! and maybe he will catch on. You go girl please your man!!!!

- Response by A Thinker, Female, 29-35, Retail

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Yes you should swicth it up all the time. As great as wanting it all the time sound he will get bored if you keep dping the same thing. You have to keep it fresh, sometime even back off a little bit and let him do his thing< even teasing sometime and let him crave for more will keep him on his toes.

- Response by mufasa01, A Hip Hop Guy, Male, 22-25, Phoenix, Self-Employed

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I'm manager of a high school football team, and all those boys want is sex but resently we we're talking about some of the relationship issues that the boys and I were haveing. Long story short one of the boys "Zach" was with a girl and they were having sex often, he was delighted she wanted to have sex all the time but he really had a problem with her being so easy and so quick to jump in bed with him. This boy, like any other, enjoys sex and he is very handsome but his complaint was she always wanted to have sex, she was easy, and when she was aggrisive [which became a habit for her] she bacame boring. I'm no expert but boys talk and thats who I'm around. "Zach" likes sex but he is more interested in the chase...

- Response by A Thinker, Female, 18-21

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I wish my girl was more like you actually. But switch it up with the guy, communication is key, and variety is always good for spice.

- Response by midnitepoets, A Guy Critical, Male, 22-25, Food Service

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Basically u have to let him chase after u. if u want to have sex with him there are things that u can do to entice him and to show that u r interested in doing the deed, but try 2 not b the one who iniciates the sex. trust me, by making him hot and horny, he'll feel like the man by making the first move and thus, keeping him interested in having sex.

- Response by nabo013189, A Thinker, Female, 18-21

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I don't think sooo, I have never experienced it myself...
But not all guys are the same but generally they all want the same thing...SEX and Aggression because they physically exert themselves and they all seemed to like itt to meee!!!=D Also this is great exercise we're talking total exhuastion!!! "mmm" Fun Fun Fun...

- Response by Microberts, A Life of the Party, Female, 18-21, Student

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it shouldnt be a problem if he thinks he can handle you
if your sure your not to much for him then he should
be pickin your ass up throwing you around the only time u can seem a lil excessive is if he has agreed to have sex with you in a few and your temper gets the best of you and waiting becomes an issue .

- Response by A Guy Critical, Male, 26-28

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yot

- Response by A Trendsetter, Female, 18-21, Los Angeles, Who Cares?

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