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Guys why do you date older woman
Guys why do you date older woman / Dating / 9:06 AM - Saturday December 29, 2007
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A Thinker (Female, 18-21) asked:


What in a older woman attracts young men, is it that she spends all her finance on you? what about the sex life would it be the same as a young woman? tell me what attracts a young man to an older woman.


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An Alternative Girl (Female, Who Cares?, Financial / Banking) answered:

Screenname: watbuttondoipush


Older women are more confident. They know what they want and don't play games to get it. Less drama and a very high sex drive. They also, usually, aren't worried if they don't know where their man is every minute of the day, they have their own life.

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A Guy Critical (Male, 22-25) answered:

Screenname: jlees


Their self-confidence and non-clingy attitude toward their dating lives.

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A Mr. Married Guy (Male, 36-45, Consulting) answered:

Screenname: justme38271


I've always tried to not let age play a factor in my judgement of someone though I do believe that age plays a factor when it comes to relationships because each generation has it's own particular quirks and people closer to each others age have more in common. But (before I met my wife) the couple of older women I was attracted to were because of their ability to say what was on their mind and their self confidence about themselves and the world.As to the sex,what I mentioned played a part in all aspects including sex.
To be frank and maybe a little brass about it as the saying goes. Yeah, young people can screw like rabbits but older people have rhythem...or...it's not the way you hit with the stick but the way you wave the wand that matters.

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A Career Woman (Female, 46-55, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: teedeeree


The number one thing that attracts younger men to older women is confidence.

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A Life of the Party (Female, Edmonton, 36-45, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: honeywillow


Most of the men I have been with have always been younger than me...my current is 10 yrs.younger and we have been together for nearly 5 yrs. now........I think it is our independence,positive attitude and self confidence.

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, Detroit, 36-45, Artist / Musician / Writer) answered:

Screenname: superbussell


over 21 its all good for sharing the love

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A Rebel (Male, 29-35) answered:

Screenname: odin45


This comes from a guy with some experience here. I don't think "confidence" is correct.

I think the answer is 1) that they play fewer games, and 2) they have learned a bit more about what a guy wants (or at least what a guy's ego wants)

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A Thinker (Female, 46-55, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: MaryAnne


Basically because older women are not expecting more from a relationship with a younger guy then it is. If the guy does not call us everyday, it is no big deal. Plus it is well known that the once a woman hits 40 her sex drive goes thru the roof.

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A Thinker (Female, Chicago, 36-45) answered:

Screenname: phenomenal1woman


substance...thats what attracts younger men to older women.also olderwomen don't sweat the small stuff..they don't require 100 calls a day nor do they need a man to really validate them.they do that for themselves.older women r older and yes more experienced in life and most everything else.
thats attractive to younger men...

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A Life of the Party (Female, 26-28, Political / Government) answered:

Screenname: toni6921


They know what they want. They're not high maintenance. They're experienced in the ways of pleasing a man. They're confident and their careers are usually established. They've been studying men for a while and understand them.

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A Career Woman (Female, Frankfurt, 36-45, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: fly404high


Because she knows exactly what they want. In ALL aspects.

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