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How Romantic Are You?
Sex & Intimacy / 5:04 AM - Thursday January 31, 2008

How Romantic Are You?


How Romantic Are You?

Pink bows, Red Hearts, candy: these timeless symbols of love remind us that lovers continue to thrive on romance.- But if romance could be packaged, it might be "This state of mind may be hazardous to your health," for many a romance is dissolved in the bubbly state of infatuation.

According to a report which independently studied thousands of couples in love, a relationship requires some romance or else it will dry up. It's a matter of striking a balance between romance and realism that determines whether your love will endure. SO-

How Romantic Are You?







- Asked by aceadvise, A Creative, Male, 46-55, Las Vegas, Therapist

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I am so Romantic lol it is breathe taking..I am not much into the days that say you should be..I like the everyday things..the Good Mornings, the look that is for only one, My favorite perfume and blue jeans that could drive a Man Crazy..a surprise ride to a favorite view when you are on the phone with them and the description of where I am..Holding hands..laughing and enjoying Life! Smile

- Response by cjs1991, A Creative, Female, 36-45, Teaching

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I am very romantic and when I was married I never lost that wanting to show it in words and actions at least a few times weekly. Unfornately I was married to someone that didn't appreciate it or give it back. But now with my bf, I try to make it so he understands daily through words or actions that I either missed him during the day, doing something nice for him or just snuggling with him on the couch. I believe strongly in as much as you can eating dinner together as a family and also going to bed together with a I love you, kiss goodnight and holding one another to waking up next to eachother with Good Morning, I love you and a kiss and at either end that turning into more of a lovemaking session. Romance is super important because it makes you feel loved and desired without it, how do you feel cared about..that is going to hurt your relationship bigtime.

For Valentines Day...I am sending my bf some Specialty cookies to his work, got him the pair of slippers he has been not getting forever because they are expensive and his birthday is Feb. 17th..so on the 16th which is a Saturday, I am booking a room somewhere with a pool and in room jacuzzi for a night of whatever he wants...but just him and I and our imaginations..

- Response by labradors, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Medical / Dental

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Im very...maybe too much...*sigh*...

- Response by lazvegzchk, A Hippie Chick, Female, Who Cares?, Las Vegas, Therapist

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I consider myself very logic. More "Spock like" than most. Most of my ideas concerning a healthy relationship often over look "romance" because I feel people use romance to rationalize bad relationships.

So, on a scale of 1 to 10, with ten being highest, I rate my romance about a -5.



- Response by curadvent, A Father Figure, Male, 36-45, Who Cares?

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i am jane austin's pride and prejudice romantic.

drives most people up the wall.

:)

in all honesty i love romance...but too each person its a different thing.

romance is a necessity for me - but my definition is anything that a person goes out of their way to do to make the other person feel special.

All that goes out the window if you hold it over the other persons head...like 'all the things i do for you' blah blah..



- Response by minx82, A Trendsetter, Female, Who Cares?, Fitness

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Given the opportunity, i'm as romantic as they come, but in my current love-less single state, I become a bitter old cynic!

- Response by loulou444, An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35, Other Profession

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"According to a report which independently studied thousands of couples in love"-how did they measure "in love"? makes no sense to my drunk mind

- Response by jabbakahut, A Creative, Male, 29-35, Construction

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i'm one of those "last of the romantics"! i love it when romance sizzles! so yes i'm very romantic indeed! smiles! lol!

- Response by hutner, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Medical / Dental

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My husband and I agree on at least this.

What we perceive to be romantic. Nothing else matters…………..




- Response by seasons4, An Alternative Girl, Female, 46-55, Milwaukee, Financial / Banking

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I'm an old-school romantic; poetry, slaying Dragons, rescues from towers, all-night orgasms, that sort of thing...

- Response by nuadagodofwar, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Other Profession

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Romance went out the door many years ago!

I used to be romantic, but my husband is just the opposite of romance. So I've given up somethings but have gained other things...If that makes sense...

Take care ace!

~SN~

- Response by sweetnovember, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Denver, Executive

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I am very romantic. I have rented limos, gone to pick up my s/o (at the time), taken him to Cuddles & Bubbles, for lobster & Prime Rib dinner followed by the cuddling and bubbling...have scattered rose petals from my door, up the stairs to the bedroom and....
I have made a fire, carried my trundle dining room table down two stairs into the living room and made his fav meal and ate by candlelight in front of the fire, which overlooked the lake that I lived on at the time. That's an example of some of the things that I have done for Valentine's day, for the person that I loved. I hold many surprises in my heart for just the right moments. :)

- Response by nightingale226, A Trendsetter, Female, Who Cares?

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kind of medium romantic LOL

- Response by jessie2265, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Medical / Dental

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all theses years i thought romance was a part of realism. i know since valentines day has been splashed in newspaper ad, emails, retail stores (my neighborhood since 2nd week in jan.)it sometimes makes one feel guilty if they don't participate. virtually most holiday sentiments seem to have lost their true meaning. i will say romance keeps one from "roaming".

- Response by kitkat19, A Thinker, Female, 46-55

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I don't know. I'm told that I'm romantic because I love to touch and cudle. I like those typical things like candle lit dinners, flowers, movies, long drives, soft music...
It must be the older I get, the more romatic I get. I can appreciate so much more now, than before.

- Response by simplyred, A Hippie Chick, Female, 46-55, Sacramento, Home Maker

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