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Hard to get
Hard to get / Dating / 5:06 AM - Saturday April 12, 2008
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A Thinker (Female, Houston, 26-28, Medical / Dental) asked:


What is it about guys liking girls who play hard to get?


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A Thinker (Female, Kansas City, 29-35, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: mimicrush


Men love that shyt. They want easy puzzy for a night, but they really would rather have a challenge. Besides, if she's easy for him, she's easy for anyone and that's a turn off. I know...double standard.
I'm playing with a few men right now (no sex) and the fact that I refuse to sleep with them is driving them nuts. Seriously. These aren't guys I've just met. I've know them for at least 6-9 months. They want a woman when they feel as though they can't have her. It's kind of entertaining to watch them whine. lol.
The trick is, if you're talented enough to keep them interested in you, they'll wait for you until you come around.

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, Charlotte, 26-28, Civil Service) answered:

Screenname: williamh81


Well, I feel that if she makes it hard for me to get her, then she isn't easy to anyone else. I respect these women more, and I never minded the chase anyway, it kept me interested longer.

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A Sportif (Female, Vancouver, 36-45, Medical / Dental) answered:

Screenname: vwgirl


It feeds their ego to think they "got" a woman that they think other men couldn't get.

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A Guy Critical (Male, Dallas, 36-45, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: tleeb


it's a mind game, he know that if he plays hard to get. he has the control in the relationship. which in turns mean you will do about anything too keep him.

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A Rebel (Male, 46-55, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: mtusa007


never been my bag. I classify hard to get as stuck on themselves, stuckup, bitchy etc.
Most guys I know, including myself, enjoy a good natured, honest and fun person and I wont hit on or try to date a person coming off as hard to get. nothing better than a woman who looks u in the eyes on first meeting, smiles and just talks honestly. but, disclaimer, too easy, loose, flighty etc is not highly sought either, as far as s/o material.

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A Career Man (Male, Houston, 26-28, Consulting) answered:

Screenname: sethmichael


girls don't play hard to get with me... I think when I find one that does... I'll be shocked enough to want to know more...

I think thats how it works...

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, 46-55, Political / Government) answered:

Screenname: arewethereyet


thr challenge...

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A Thinker (Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: barbb


People always what they can't have. That is human nature.

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, 46-55, Political / Government) answered:

Screenname: richard77


Child's play......

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A Life of the Party (Male, Chicago, 46-55, Political / Government) answered:

Screenname: awsum1


Well, I think there is a middle ground with all of this. If a girl is TOO easy, well, that speaks for itself. However, she can also play too hard to get, and I'm not gonna wait forever for some woman to make up her mind.

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A Thinker (Female, Tampa, Who Cares?, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: roseytalks


Most guys don't want someone who is easy but also not impossible to get ...same as women. Rosey

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A Creative (Male, 56-65, Retired) answered:

Screenname: 57fanatic


A girl told me once, 'Chase me 'til I catch you'. Guys may
think they are not making any progress in the relationship
when really, they are.

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