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Can you have it all????
Married Life / 11:48 PM - Monday June 23, 2008

Can you have it all????

I wanted to add to my question above...would you sacrifice a sexless marriage if the other person did have other qualities you liked. he is nice looking, trustworthy, and hard working. The bad qualities are he is a loner, passionateless, sexless....maybe once a month, and a homebody.

Can you really have it all in marriage????

Update: June 24, 2008.
sorry..must of worded this really confusingly. The question is only decribing one man. The one man has these good and bad qualities...

- Asked by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 22-25, Dallas, Financial / Banking

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... Could ease up off the sex, for the qualities of trustworthy and hard working, for just those very things rank high in these days in which we are now living...

- Response by kismet331, A Thinker, Female, 46-55

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Im really confused, OK let me see if I got this?? Sacrifice a sexless marriage for someone with qualities you like, but has bad qualities..... hes a loner,passionateless,se xless,maybe once a month,and is a homebody. Sounds the same as the first guy, why would you sacrifice what you have for the same thing????????

- Response by 1sassychic, A Married Girl, Female, 36-45, Student

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Ok I get it!!! I re-read it again, Sacrifice staying b/c of other qualities besides sex that you like. You threw me off with the other person thing, meaning your spouse right?? Well Sex is very important and lack of can cause other problems within the r/s. Which it sounds like there is. So that being said the issue of intimacy need to be addressed. Have you talked to him about seeing a marriage counselor??

- Response by 1sassychic, A Married Girl, Female, 36-45, Student

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If he would be ok with me sleeping with other people, then maybe but he would have to have extremley good qualities. If this is not the case, then no.

- Response by marycherry, A Creative, Female, 29-35, Fitness

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