Okay, so b/f and I of four years steady exclusive dating, broke up due to circumstances and things occurring that I refuse to have in a relationship I will stay in. Nothing like abuse or anything ....just certain behaviors I will not put up with in my relationship. SO I broke up with him and told him I was not happy and why I wasn't. A few weeks later we talk...I spill my heart and my thoughts to him. He seems to have done a complete turnaround (mind you we've done this before and the changes are just temporary). Well he now tells me he loves me, and misses me, and is sweet, patient and understanding. More the guy I have wanted him to be all these years. My question is for the guys I guess, do men really change on the verge of losing a relationship, or am I being played for a fool? Last thing I want is to go another year and just be heart broken once again.

Thanks for taking time to read.....