Yeah, he's simply not caring enough to take his time and to make sure you get yours. Or, he's just too sexually immature to know how to make it last. I mean, I can see if he came fast the first time. But, after that he should have gotten that initial release out. Sometimes, this happens when they haven't gotten any in a while. Extending foreplay goes a long way towards both people enjoying the experience.
Truly great lovers know how to do this. Often they enjoy the ability to give the most pleasure to the person they are with moreso than getting it. If it's just sex and him getting off. I'm sorry, but he's not going to be too concerned about whether you get yours or not. You say, he's feeling inadequate in regards to pleasing you. But, what is he doing different to change the problem? If the injury was the problem, I doubt he'd be able to get pleasure at all. Let alone, faster. If it concerns him as much as it does yourself. Maybe, the two of you can see a Doctor about what's going on and get some help. Good luck whatever you two decide.
- Response by thelovedovefor1
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