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Cheating...tolerant or intolerant?
Sex & Intimacy / 2:36 AM - Thursday January 08, 2009

Cheating...tolerant or intolerant?

Why do you guys put up with cheaters? Both men and women?

I have a zero tolerance for cheaters, and have simply turned and walked away from that relationship, would you?

- Asked by Female, 22-25

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i head for the hills and don't backtrack, but not before i try to bust his head down to the white meat!

- Response by gumboyaya, A Career Woman, Female, 36-45, Law Enforcement

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i know somethings in the middle of everything with feelings going all crazy it can be hard to figure out what you would do.my ex cheated on me, i didnt have a chance to find out what i would do because he left me for my then best friend..but in the end i think i would have left him. the trust was gone, and even though i forgave him theres no way i will ever forget

- Response by dragonflyfairie, A Hippie Chick, Female, 26-28, Other Profession

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It can happen that there are too many variables involved in this issue. Don't be so dogmatic coz you might need to take it back in the future...

- Response by secilia, An Alternative Girl, Female, 26-28, Athens, Body Work

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I've only been cheated on once and at the time it was really hard to walk away but she made it easier... Once a cheater always a cheater!

- Response by rodir0n, A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, Sacramento, Managerial

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It definitely depends on the situation and relationship but it also depends on your definition of cheating. No one is perfect everyone makes mistakes. I've been cheated on and didn't stay. Yet, I also have been cheated on and stayed. My current relationship we had a problem but we worked through it and now our bond is stronger than ever. It all depends on you and whether you want to make it work or not.

- Response by A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Atlanta, Military

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i put up with a cheater because i love him and because i know all he wants from other girls is the physical aspect, im his girl and he makes sure i know it, im th eone he cares about and the one he comes home to every night and if he does want to sleep with another girl he tells me first and if i say no then its no. we have a wierd understanding of one another. id rather love him the way he is then lose him altogether

- Response by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 18-21, Auckland, Student

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If you're not MARRIED, only dating, it isn't "cheating".
You can walk away any time you like.

- Response by creepyolderguy, A Player, Male, 46-55, Medical / Dental

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If it happens only one time, I would stay, but if it ever happened one more time....I'd walk!!!!!!!!!!!!:)

- Response by barbb, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?

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Depends how many times. Ppl make mistakes and no one is perfect, so one time if they were honest about it yea I would and Have

- Response by jenniferbean07, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 22-25

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