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My girlfriend seems to have no area for romance. Is there a way to break her out of this or no?
Dating / 8:24 PM - Saturday May 23, 2009

My girlfriend seems to have no area for romance. Is there a way to break her out of this or no?

When it comes to romance, my girlfriend has no interest it seems like. I tried taking her to the beach one time at nite with the sound of the ocean and the moon glaring off the ocean. And it had no effect on her what so ever. And when I ask what she likes for romance she says she don't know and acts like there is nothing. Is there a way to break her from this or no? And I will add that she is a major tomboy!

- Asked by sensualman, A Guy Critical, Male, 26-28, Transportation

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Perhaps you should try wrestling with her?

- Response by lovelight, A Creative, Female, 56-65, Los Angeles, Artist / Musician / Writer

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It sounds like she isn't the romantic type. Some girls are and some aren't. If she's a tomboy, she probably thinks that too mushy!

- Response by hulagirl55, A Sportif, Female, 46-55, San Francisco, Who Cares?

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take her to a baseball game and buy her a hot dog and beer

go on a 10 mile run with her and tell her she looks foxy when she is all sweaty

what does she like?

If it was me I would get excited over a clever poem that you wrote yourself....I don't get excited by romantic cliches like the moon on the beach either....I did a walk on the beach with s/o at night in Spain...but frankly had a better time when we went to the casino and gambled together and he made fun of me

- Response by meowmeowww, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, San Francisco, Technical

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Being a tomboy has nothing to do with being romantic, first of all. A tomboy is a woman who eschews the usual feminine attire and makeup and is usually really athletic. As for changing her, good luck. She is what she is, accept it or move on. I don't have a romantic bone in my body, but my husband more thank makes up for it. He's extremely romantic and goes out of his way to bring me flowers, plan nice dinners and do very nice things for me. The fact that I'm not romantic doesn't mean that I don't appreciate it or think that it's very sweet, because I do. I'm just not that type of personality. Just let her be. The fact that she's not the same way as you doesn't mean that she doesn't like being treated that way. If we were all the same, we'd be very boring. You sound like a nice tender person who tries to do nice things for the person you care about. Just be that way because you are and don't expect her to be your clone. For my husband, all it takes for him to know he's done the right thing is for me to smile and kiss him and hug him and he knows it's very appreciated.

- Response by diznykd, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Executive

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Maybe you haven't found your lobster!

- Response by blujwel, Female, 46-55, Medical / Dental

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