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I need some insite what did you do?
Dating / 8:05 PM - Sunday July 05, 2009

I need some insite what did you do?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months this month..The beginning of June he left to GA with his sister too visit his dad and family..He was supposed to come back to TX at the end of this month..but he got into some trouble...To make a long story short,he is in jail right now and I dont know when he will get out..His courtdate isnt until next month and there's no telling what will happen to him after that..So any women,or men, been in this situation? And if so what did you do?

- Asked by ebbybaby254, A Hip Hop Girl, Female, 18-21, Houston, Who Cares?

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No I've never been in that situation.

He sounds like a real winner though, I can see why you want to stay with him so badly. :|

- Response by sharonpeters, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Other Profession

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I have never been in this situation personally, but maybe it's because I don't date jailbirds.

- Response by sunshinehighway, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, New York, Medical / Dental

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Girl, you are young enjoy your life. I am not saying don't be a friend to him while he is locked down, all I am saying is that you should not stop your life you are young. Also, he is your boyfriend, it would be a difference if he was your husband.

- Response by te12, A Hip Hop Girl, Female, 26-28

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well ask your self do you want to be with someone in jail? how do you feel about it what does your family think of it? in my case it would be over. thats how i feel about it. my wife told me that she loves me but shes not trying to be around some one that would hold her back in life.

- Response by j3s5e, A Rebel, Male, 26-28, Retired

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What I would do is directly proportional to the reason he was in jail.

- Response by snowkatcher, A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, Los Angeles, Financial / Banking

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let him rot.
or bail him out so he can get into trouble again.
your call.

- Response by movi, A Guy Critical, Male, 46-55, Administrative

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dear you should move on....once a guy goes down the road that leads him to jail he usually ends up in jail multiple times over his life. it is ugly but it is reality.
do you really want to have your future children growing up in a life of violence and seeing their daddy shot or in jail some where? you can do much better in the romance department.

- Response by sirkermittsg, A Guy Critical, Male, 29-35, Dallas, Transportation

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If a man I'm seeing winds up in jail, he can rot there for all I care. I'm done.

- Response by buffalothighs88, A Hippie Chick, Female, 46-55, Hospitality

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