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Do you reckon he knows I fancy him?
Dating / 8:08 PM - Sunday July 05, 2009

Do you reckon he knows I fancy him?


Basically I have a thing for older men (i just fancy them more than guys my age) Me and my friend were at work and had been talking about it just before the guy I like came to the till to be served, My friend said without noticing him properly "Why do you like OLD MEN?!" and the guy i like started laughing for AGES! (he has already been told someone at work likes him).
Anyway later on he came back and said to me "are you still thinking about your men from earliar?"
So I might be paranoid but I think he figured out I fancy him.
Also the other day he said that it was unforunate for me I didnt get to see him in the mornings because of our differances in shifts.
If he has figured it out my question is does it sound like he's responding in a positive or negative way?
thanks a lot guys

p.s reason I do not try and act is because I'm assuming the age gap would bother him/I also don't have self-confidence in general when it comes to notcing if someone likes me or not lol
(I'm 21 he's 37)

- Asked by Female, 18-21

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As long as he's not married or otherwise taken, go for it. I'm 21, and my guy is 39, I couldn't be happier. I don't know any older man who would be bothered by the age gap.

- Response by STGchick, A Thinker, Female, 18-21, Military

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Hmm.

I have to wonder what it is you see in older men, besides money in their wallets?

- Response by sharonpeters, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Other Profession

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I'd say he is fixin' to respond to you in a positive way.

- Response by aoluserchick, A Career Woman, Female, 46-55, Consulting

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Hey, I love older men. They're the only ones who know what they're doing! I think your post is cute. Go for it!

- Response by sunshinehighway, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, New York, Medical / Dental

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im 50,
an aarp dude...
with a grey muzzle for sure from all the tax and spend liberal agenda.
frankly, i look a lot like the lovable fuzzball in the av...
not always as surprized though.

- Response by movi, A Guy Critical, Male, 46-55, Administrative

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it sounds like he is interested in you but the main thing you need to check on is if he is married or not. i've done been there done that and its a dead end road. never again will i fool around with a married man. their wife will ALWAYS come before you. but other than that it sounds like he's interested but dont want to scare you off or he's married and dont want to seem too interested cuz he dont want you stalking him and getting him in trouble with his wife.

- Response by lilmisscheery, A Married Girl, Female, 29-35, San Antonio, Who Cares?

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Most of the guys I know would not be bothered by that age gap. in general guys think younger women are HOT. developing a small amount of self confidance might help to to have a smile on your face when it comes to the romance department. his question to you sounds like a small flirt with you in my book...you should flirt back.

- Response by sirkermittsg, A Guy Critical, Male, 29-35, Dallas, Transportation

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He may be flattered, even interested....but the age diff could be a deal-breaker for him. Just continue to be friendly and if he's available and okay with the age diff, he'll let you know.

- Response by snowbear08, A Cool Mom, Female, 36-45, Pittsburgh, Who Cares?

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