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| Dating / 8:57 PM - Sunday July 05, 2009 |
Why do I feel like I have to be someone else for guys????Hi everyone. I am a very friendly person who loves people. Why can't I be myself without guys thinking I "want" them. I have a long term boyfriend but I love making new friends - male or female, I couldn't give a rats. I am sick of just being myself and having guys think I want to have sex with them! I am NOT touchy feely, I am NOT complimentary. I just like having a laugh and making friends! Grrrrrrrrrrrrr! - Asked by Female, 26-28 |
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You can. It's not your problem if you are mis-interpreted by others unless what you do is intentional.
- Response by snowkatcher, A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, Los Angeles, Financial / Banking
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What do you think is making them get this impression of you? Maybe it's some attitude or action you're inadvertently giving off? I guess the best way to make clear to them that you don't want sex with them is to mention your boyfriend right up front. I found this a very useful tactic. A convo can go something like this:
- Response by sphinxtress, A Thinker, Female, 26-28
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sounds like you are mixing with the wrong guys. but men are men and will naturally gravitate to you if you are appealing, you should be so lucky
- Response by verygood, A Father Figure, Male, 46-55, Denver, Lawyer
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just say you want friends and if they dont like it they can "hit the gate!"
- Response by osieboo, A Thinker, Female, 46-55
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