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Is it okay to tell a guy how much you miss him, even if you are not seeing him anymore?
Dating / 7:59 PM - Sunday August 23, 2009

Is it okay to tell a guy how much you miss him, even if you are not seeing him anymore?

If you stop seeing someone because you were afraid that things were moving too fast, and all communication has stopped, no calls, or texts, would it be wrong to send him a card that said how much i miss him? sometimes i have a hard time letting go. If i send it and he doesn't call does that mean it's time to move on?

- Asked by An Alternative Girl, Female, 46-55

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You only send it if you want NOTHING out of it.

Now, if you want to "re-engage" the relationship, you need to CALL him on the PHONE and discuss it. No texting. No cards. No letters. A PHONE CALL ON A REAL PHONE. Otherwise, you get over it and move on like he has. See, if he was still hanging on to you, he would have contacted you for some lame reason.

- Response by msadvise, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Transportation

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If you miss him, then you shouldn't have broken up with him.

You have no business telling someone you miss him, if you didn't want to be with him.

Sending mixed messages is a sign of psycho behavior.

Either know what you want, and commit to it, or keep your mouth shut and live with your confusion until you have a clue.


- Response by steve67, A Rebel, Male, Who Cares?

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No. It means it's time to jump off of a cliff.

- Response by joeblow1234, A Creative, Male, 46-55, Whitehorse, Artist / Musician / Writer

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Absolutely, but keep it light..i.e. a friendship card. like u were thinking of him a nd the fun times, and love to touch bases with him. when he has time, a call not a text.. go for it,

- Response by dreamspinner, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Chicago

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It means he does not want to be pulled back into a relationship with you if he doesn't answer.

- Response by barbb, An Alternative Girl, Female, Who Cares?, Other Profession

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It's time to move on now. You stopped seeing him and now you changed your mind? Or just an attachment issue? You need to get yourself busy with some sort of class or craft. IF you have issues getting close to people some therapy might not be a bad idea.

- Response by solstess, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Detroit, Artist / Musician / Writer

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you broke up with him? And now you wish to tell him you made a mistake? Be prepared to be disappointed. But, follow your heart. I'm going through the same thing. ALthough, I was the one who got dumped. He will NOT be hearing from me. Although, every day I've wished to hear from him. It's been a month. Best wishes to you, I know it's hard :-(

- Response by anunquietmind, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Student

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Perhaps it is time to move on.
And if he misses you, he will reconnect with you some way, some how.

- Response by kismet331, A Thinker, Female, 36-45

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If you miss him, then you shouldn't have broken up with him.
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- Response by chinaphone, A Career Woman, Female, 26-28, Guangdong, Who Cares?

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