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What should I do ? Or just do nothing ?
Dating / 8:53 AM - Friday October 23, 2009

What should I do ? Or just do nothing ?

My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for 5 months. She was very controlling towards me and critical. I started standing up to her control and she didnt like it so she broke up with me. She now has another boyfriend. We havent communicated since the break up. It ended bad. 2 weeks ago she emailed me to congratulate me on my new job. I never responded back. What is she doing ? What should I do ?

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- Asked by Male, 22-25

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Good for you standing up to her, and I think you have done the right thing in not bothering to get in touch with her.

Not all girls are controlling and critical... in fact, that makes for a horrible relationship, so I'm happy for you that you broke it up, and can start feeling good about yourself.

I think you should continue to ignore her. Don't respond, just keep on doing well in your new job.

- Response by An Alternative Girl, Female, 26-28, Student

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you could respond and say TKS, however I personally Would NOT

here's Why -- She may think that YOU have Opened the door for more convo's

let the Past be the Past -- she is an X for a reason, just let it go


good luck
~w

- Response by wolfspirit, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?

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She might just wanted to congratulate you and that's it but you never know she may also want to sneak back into your life. Be careful about that. You don't want to get back with a controlling, critical gf do you?

- Response by girlpower08, A Sportif, Female, 36-45

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Email her back if you feel like you have something to say..however from what it sounds like you aren't missing anything. Its possible she is...just remember people don't change. How did she know you got a new job anyway?

- Response by kelly76, A Player, Female, 29-35, Tampa, Who Cares?

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maybe she realized what kind of a person she was being, and is now truley happy........ respond and say thank you very much!

Short and simple...... dont leave a door open, or you might be leaving yourself vurnerable!

:) good luck!!

- Response by overthinker101, A Thinker, Female, 29-35, Toronto, Self-Employed

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do just as you have done... nothing.

there is no communication from a control freak that does not have attached to it a hint of more to come.

toxic waste be gone.

- Response by two469, A Married Girl, Female, 18-21, Newark, Retail

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Ignore it.

- Response by drumboi2, A Guy Critical, Male, 56-65, Technical

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If she was treating you poorly you should stop all contact. You don't need to respond. Move on as quickly as you can and find someone who treats you better. Rosey

- Response by roseytalks, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Tampa, Who Cares?

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Simply say "thank you" and don't contact her again.

- Response by nymodel3, A Creative, Female, 46-55, Atlanta, Fashion

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You can as well email her back and say thanks for the thanks? Still if she starts trying to become chummy with you? Back off

- Response by katman9x, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 29-35, Medical / Dental

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