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Being a stay at home parent/partner sucks. I do not like my s.o dressing up everymorning and going
Jokes, Polls & Anything Else / 11:03 AM - Friday November 06, 2009

Being a stay at home parent/partner sucks. I do not like my s.o dressing up everymorning and going

away. I dont like it. and when he gets home, we barely talk. I am so neglected. I really want to be with someone who has time for me. Always. and take care of me. *sigh* lonley one here. :(

Update: November 06, 2009.
how about dating a millionaire. we both then dont have to work and vacay together. hmm i want that.

- Asked by A Married Girl, Female, 29-35, Other Profession

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So you wish he was unemployed? You dream of being on welfare and eating government cheese?

You're an idiot.

How about you get a job and he stays home then? As long as you can earn the same coin he does I see no problem.

Otherwise count your blessings and shut your mouth.

- Response by llafsroh, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Boston, Science / Engineering

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I can't believe what I'm reading! Neglected? If he doesn't work, how will you support yourselves? It's not like you will get up off your ass and get a job! You want a millionaire? You can't even use proper English!

- Response by italiangypsy, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Philadelphia, Other Profession

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So, why don't you go get a job, then?

If you don't like staying at home -- don't.

- Response by utahmom, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Salt Lake City, Managerial

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Been there/Done it....go volunteer somewhere if getting a job isn't an option. It will give you tons of self worth & tons of appreciation!!!!!

- Response by firechick, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Portland, Celebrity

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The reason you can stay at home is because he works...The person that stays home all day with you will have to be an unemployed person living on welfare...Get a job and help him out and you might find yourself less bored and needy. Rosey

- Response by roseytalks, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Tampa, Who Cares?

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He is taking care of you by working to pay the bills. Best thing to do would be to get yourself a job, even if just part-time, so you can get out of the house and socialize.

- Response by beebeegirl, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Medical / Dental

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Look...thank your God and lucky starts that your s/o has a job to go to ..to get dressed up.... In todays economy he could be home and living a life of insecure hell wondering when and if the next darn job was coming along....

If you are busy cleaning the house,doing laundry ,dishes,meal planning and making an complete meal...bathing and fixing yourself to look really nice and possiboly pursuing educational interests and other social interest...You will have no time left for the abandonment issue that is more in line with the thinking of an 18 yr old... Suck it up toots and get movin'!

- Response by lady4u, A Creative, Female, 56-65, Cincinnati, Managerial

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C-star to Jesus...Just think, he could be a Crack dealer instead.

- Response by buffersclone, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Los Angeles, Managerial

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I'm a stay-at-home Mother and wife too and it sounds to me like you need to get a life of your own outside of the house. You cannot depend solely on your spouse for your happiness and he sure can't be there to entertain you and earn a living to support you too.



- Response by dalaimama, A Thinker, Female, 29-35

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So what's stopping you. Is he holding your prisonor in a locked cell or something? Seriously - you're not even married to the guy, yet you gave up a job of your own and, presumably a lot of your own friends and interests so that you can stay home and have a man take care of you. Except that you're obviously not being taken care of in a way that would make you happy.
Stop whining, get dressed up, get out and get a job. And then get your own place.


- Response by uniquelyme2, A Creative, Female, 46-55, Artist / Musician / Writer

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Are you serious? How is someone supposed to take care of you and the kids if they don't go to work and earn money to support you?

If you two don't talk when he comes home, then START TALKING. Ask him how his day went or something. Damn!

- Response by justpassingthru, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Financial / Banking

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