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| Diet & Health / 6:54 PM - Friday November 06, 2009 |
How do you deal with severe depression?So much so that you never smile and can't see the joy or good in anything in life.
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Vodka.
- Response by sunshinehighway, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, New York, Medical / Dental
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in one word: Lexipro
- Response by A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, Portland, Consulting
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I hear that exercise is one way to shift depression. You have to CHOOSE to fight it, I feel. I know it's hard, and sometimes people can support you---but from someplace inside you must find the Will to shift your energy, take steps to move through it.
- Response by ocelotspot, A Sweet Sarah, Female, Who Cares?, Columbus, Who Cares?
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Take joy in the small things first. For instance, today is another day you woke up on the right side of the dirt, so things can't be all bad, hey? Then work yourself up to bigger things. Life is all about how you deal with what's thrown at you and your attitude about it.
- Response by damon8r, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 29-35, Norfolk
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Medication helps if the depression has a physical cause. A really good counselor can teach you how to do stop destructive thoughts and behaviors.
- Response by justpassingthru, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Financial / Banking
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I wish I would have seen this last weekend because I was in a severe slump....& really don't know why.........I have so much to be thankful for...but sometimes you sit back & think...is this it????? If you haven't talked to your DR you probably should. They will be able to help you....just be honest with your thoughts....I am on anti-depressants & I'm going to make sure I tell my DR next visit that I was feeling pretty low... I snapped put of it when my kids called & heard a few I love you Mom's..even tho' they didn't know how blue i was..If you've been down for more than 2 weeks, make an appt asap!!! I also want to say that if you are feeling suicidal ( I hope not ) that you call 911 right away. OK?????
- Response by A Hippie Chick, Female, 56-65, Cincinnati, Self-Employed
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You have made several posts recently about your depression and I've responded before and am asking you again, to please make an appt with a doctor who can treat you. If the medication he gives you is not working let him/her know so that she can try something else. There is a myriad of drugs out there to treat severe depression. Severe depression is not something that one can "snap out of". There is no need for you to suffer like this. If you are ever feeling desperate over your depression please call 911. We at answerology are not equipped to bring you out of your depression, but can only give you our support and caring thoughts. My best to you, but please seek help from a doctor.
- Response by majicou, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?
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I attempt suicide; however, I'm afraid the ricochets will harm innocent bystanders.
- Response by stillagoodguy1, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Celebrity
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Seek treatment. new antidepressants, major tranquilizers, therapy and new kinder shock treatments while patient is under anathesia is said to do miracles.
- Response by dreamspinner, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Chicago
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stub your toe, that always changes my perspective
- Response by caramelady, A Trendsetter, Female, 22-25
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My approach to the *blues* and I suggest it for everything including clinical depression...
- Response by buffersclone, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Los Angeles, Managerial
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You go to your doctor and take the medications he prescribes for you. Tharpy may also help you come to terms with what is causing this depression.
- Response by barbb, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?
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i agree with what everyone else says in their replies (apart from the dude who said he attempted sucicide...do not ever try it-you think there is no one here for you just now but seriously think about the people you are leaving behind.few months before i was born,my uncle(dads brother) who was 21,killed himself over a girlfriend,and my family never got over it -this changed my father to be a worse person) everyone has down days.do something different,watch a funny movie or think back to a happy memory-look at really old photos from high school or from your childhood.
- Response by A Life of the Party, Female, 18-21, Buenos Aires, Student
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A Doctor will prescribe something for you. It is magic
- Response by duggers, A Guy Critical, Male, 66 or older
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I have never dealt with severe depression. If I am feeling low one day or blah, I will give myself a sick day from work and stay in bed, and be lazy, read a book, watch tv and vegetate or something. Then the next day, I am good. I will absolutely not allow myself to feel blah more than one day.
- Response by jaws, A Career Woman, Female, 36-45, Los Angeles, Managerial
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I'm a stubborn bitch, I refuse anything to get me down
- Response by rubyrednotdead, A Creative, Female, 26-28, London, Artist / Musician / Writer
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I pray alot, every day.
- Response by goodnaturedb, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Self-Employed
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I go through it a lot sometimes good music will bring me out of it
- Response by bigcurt, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Pittsburgh, Self-Employed
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When I was going through severe depression, it was after my mom died and I was clinically depressed for over 6 months and believe me, I thought about ending it all everyday...what got me through was thinking about the 'good' things I had in my life like my children, my dad, my brothers and sisters and my friends...then I thought about the health I had, the ability to walk, talk, think, and then I thought about how many people would be affected if anything happened to me...lastly, I talked to my doctor and we worked out a plan where I would start taking anti-depressants and talking to a mental health counsellor and believe me, I found the reason to go on...you need to take stock of what it is that is causing your depression and think about ways that you might be able to change those things or deal with them...then start writing in a journal after you see your doctor, and write down all the thoughts, feelings and emotions you are going through so that you don't have to 'carry' these things around with you...and know that you were put on this earth for a reason and although it may not seem 'purposeful' right now, your life will/is worth fighting for...:D
- Response by fastball, A Creative, Female, 36-45, Student
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try some vitamins-esp B12 w/no Iron and lots of sunshine-exercise-walk- get out of the house-
- Response by movi, A Guy Critical, Male, 46-55, Administrative
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Not to pick on people here, but severe depression is not the occasional blues. There is no hurt in trying their suggestions, but if they don't work please go talk to a psychologist. If you don't have the money, there are counseling services available in many areas for low-income patients given by doctors or clinical social workers. Be wary of anyone suggesting that you take medication immediately. Try therapy first and make sure that doctor is not a quack.
- Response by trufflet, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, New York
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I have dealt with this in the past - seeking out a good counselor is helpful, or talking with a trusted friend. Sometimes the counselor route is better, 'tho because the friends get tired of you always being depressed and dumping on them. Writing down things to be thankful for helps, as there is always something, no matter how bad things get, that we can be thankful for, as well as making sure you eat right, exercise, and keep in mind that this too shall pass. I found that meditating on Bible verses helped as well to keep my mind clear from negative thoughts.
- Response by experience101, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?
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..mostly in God..i have to believe that he/she is real and has a plan for me..
- Response by michellekia, A Thinker, Female, 29-35, St.Louis, Other Profession
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i try not to think of what deppressing me and make the best of it.which u could also take med for deppression i don`t i deal wit it.
- Response by prettysoul21, A Thinker, Female, 18-21
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one time after an attempt of suicide , a doctor asked how long have you been depressed I said depressed I am not depressed.
- Response by morningdust, An Alternative Girl, Female, 46-55, New York, Self-Employed
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i went thru that after college, when is started working. i felt the same way. i went some medication for about 8 months, and went to a couple therapy sessions. now im fine and medication free. google "quarter life crisis".
- Response by foonlord, A Creative, Male, 26-28, San Francisco, Internet / New Media
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