How much is too much???

So on sunday i asked my guy friend what was going on between us and then i told him that i didn't know what was going on between us but that i like him and i thought he should know. He told me he was not sure what this is. so i asked if he had ever thought about about it and he said that he had. i then asked where we should go from here and he said he honestly didn't know. then said I wish i knew life never makes sense.

so i wanna know what you all think. How often is to often for me to talk to him? i kinda wanna give him some space to figure stuff out but then again i miss talking and hanging out with my friend?

oh btw we have talked since but not in person and they were all short convo's