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What does it mean if a guy seems to like having oral sex more than regular sex?
Sex & Intimacy / 8:51 PM - Saturday December 05, 2009

What does it mean if a guy seems to like having oral sex more than regular sex?

The guy I'm talking to seems to prefer oral sex a lot more than regular sex. Does this mean annything? We've only had sex once, and everytime we get together he just wants oral.

- Asked by Female, 22-25

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Does he do it for you? If not then forget it. He is just out for himself then.

- Response by dreamdancer, A Creative, Female, 36-45, Houston, Other Profession

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Is he giving as good as he gets?

If so, he might be worried about an unwanted pregnancy.

If not, he's selfish and not worth your time.

- Response by mamom04, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 56-65, Phoenix

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oral sex is normal. it's called fellatio and cunnilingus in psychology.
but in psyche if he insist on doing this for about 6 months its not normal anymore.
how long has he been insisting in this routine? you might want to keep track of the time.
also try talking to him about it. there might be some issues as to why he prefer oral.

- Response by deynna, An Engaged Girl, Female, 22-25, Tokyo, Student

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It could mean he's getting regular sex from someone else, and in his mind, the oral sex w/ you isn't 'cheating' on her. Or it could mean you give awesome head! Try asking him and see what he says.

- Response by Veronica71276, A Creative, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?

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he may have never recieved oral before and maybe thats why he likes it so much or he is just a typical man and enjoys oral. Who knows...

- Response by mveezy, A Guy Critical, Male, 29-35, Technical

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Nothing wrong with that as long as he reciprocates. By the way, what you are doing is "sex," so don't say you've only "had sex" once. I think you mean intercourse. Other question...have you told him you want intercourse? It sounds like he is telling you what he wants, but you're not telling him what you want.

- Response by tomtomcat, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 56-65, New York, Teaching

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and as long as you are willing to just give it to him he will only want it

- Response by bigcurt, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Pittsburgh, Self-Employed

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hi lol,
i think you have the same bf likes me but my situation is difirent i dont know yours , but i dont give him head if dont have regular sex wae me i gave him bloejob couple of time he once he asked me in morning and said we had normal in night but then he went to sleep and ignored then we had fight now i said if you dont wanna please me what on earth i should give him. so now every time when he want this from me he has to give me something aswell unless i am on my period because when i am on period or he ask me for it i give head to him but also said to him wheni will be off from my period he has to come to me.
One more thing we also have sex once or some time twice a weak honey.
You know baby i think sometime my bf is selfish little bit so i think yours as so many people told you in post he just want what he want as i get the same answer when i aske same question and know i have realise that he is selfish but i cannot leave him as i think i love him and i am totally mad for him, so i am bearing it. Would you like to share about you.
sorry baby if my writing is not good.

- Response by atika10, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 29-35, Glasgow

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He is selfish, lazy and using you?

- Response by siouxzen, A Career Woman, Female, Who Cares?, Guadalajara, Self-Employed

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