|Dating / 3:58 PM - Wednesday February 03, 2010|
Why does she say she loves me yet she's going out with another guy??
OK... Where to start... My names Paul and i'm seriously confused with this current situation i'm in currently... There's this girl called Heather and i'm madly in love with her... We met about 4 months ago and we started out as friends, but as time went on we started dating and really started to like each other.... She told me a few times when we were dating that she wasn't looking for a relationship with anyone yet... I like her so i thought ok then i'll give it more time. We had an argument a couple of weeks ago and we've patched things up now,,, But she told me that she's in a relationship with a guy now... I know she was obviously looking about over the time we knew each other, but the thing i don't understand is we went out the other night, because she wanted to know if i was ok, because she knows how much i really like her... And she told me on that night that she wants to stay really close friends and said "you're my male bestfriend" And then later on that night she said that she loved me... And we were flirting, huging and kissing all night.... I just don't understand... I said to her if you like me that much then dump him and go with me... Does she really like me or am i being played??? She told me that she couldn't... but its after that conversation that all the flirting etc, started!! WTF am i supposed to do here??????? I love her to much to just walk away, but i feel likei'm being played for a mug!.. I don't know who to talk to.. please i need some advise from anyone....
- Asked by A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 22-25, London
I was in a relationship with a girl who had a boyfriend. I thought I was in love her so much it wasn't funny. I asked her to break up with her boyfriend after several months of dating her but she refused. Then out of no where she broke up with her boyfriend and started loving me but by that time I found out that I didn't love her as I thought I did. The heart is a funny thing and so unpredictable. You may feel one way and later have a change of heart and mind.
gwt over it , you been played mate. she dont love you!!! coz if she did she would be with you. you dig