|Sex & Intimacy / 9:33 AM - Sunday February 28, 2010|
Should I be upset that he's talking to his ex?
I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year. Recently, I discovered that he is talking to an old girlfriend pretty regularly. I'm not so upset that he's talking to her, it's really more about the fact that he hid it from me. I'm also kind of surprised because in the past when he had mentioned this person, he made her out to be a lying, conniving slut that he wanted nothing to do with. When I tried to talk to him and let him know that it bothered me NOT that he talked to her, but that he hid it, he blew up and acted like I was insanely jealous and told me she was his "friend" and he would never stop talking to her. Am I crazy here? I think if I hid the fact that I talked with my ex on a regular basis for a year, he'd be pretty upset.
- Asked by An Alternative Girl, Female, 36-45