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For a couple weeks I've been flirting wi...
11:21 PM - Saturday June 05, 2004

For a couple weeks I've been flirting wi...

For a couple weeks I've been flirting with this single guy at work. The flirting has been mutual and not friendly-flirting, but more my-loins-are-hot-for-yo u flirting. It's a bit awkward at times and he's blushed occasionally. When I inquire about his lovelife, he says there's nothing going on, but later drops that he's dating some girl. Come to find out through a male friend, he's had a girlfriend for over a year. What's up with that? Why the quasi-withholding of information from me? I can't figure out what this guy thinks he wants.

- Asked by An Alternative Girl, Female, 22-25, Washington, DC

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some guys want to know that they can still get beautiful single girls....especially if they have been "off the market" for a long time....its like being on a diet...."you can look at the dessert menu all you want as long as you dont eat any!"

- Response by jpwinac, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 18-21, Oklahoma City, Student

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Sounds like too much trouble. He's withholding information and he works with you, so it could end up bad. I'd say just find another guy.

- Response by An Intellectual Guy, Male, 26-28, New Orleans, Technical

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very simple in my eyes, he whats some nookie with you, give in, enjoy, and find places at work to do it. I would. take it for face value, don't gossip, don't ask questions. what do you want "my loins are hot"?

- Response by juknow, A Guy Critical, Male, 29-35, Food Service

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he probably just want to have sex with you at the office, and then comehome to his loving girlfriend who he can get more intamite with....Hope that helps.

- Response by A Player, Male, 22-25, Toronto, Science / Engineering

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