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| Sex & Intimacy / 4:03 PM - Tuesday July 20, 2004 |
Help I need some booty!!!!I just recently started sleeping with my best friend. But that is not even the problem. The problem is sometimes he is not able to get hard or if he does he loses it quite quickly. We will be fooling around and he is hard, but then (only sometimes) he just goes limp and he cant get it back hard. HE says it has never happened to him before and that I just make him really nervous. What is the deal? I mean he can get hard so what causes him to lose it so suddenly? He is sarting to give me a complex like it is me or soething. I have never had a guy not be able to get or stay hard! Help ! - Asked by A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Who Cares? |
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He's getting used to going from best friends to lovers. Give him time, get him all sexy up and don't worry about it. It may be his PC muscle is not strong, too much alcohol, too tired, or a horde of other issues. Or, it could be, he's just nervous. Have good fun in (on, around or nowhere near) bed and don't worry about performance, just go for it!
- Response by sunsetlover, A Player, Male, 26-28, Vancouver, Technical
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Just be a little patient...it could be any number of things, nervousness included. I've been there, actually, VERY recently, and I asked about him being on medication or something else causing it, because I've never had that problem either. He just told me he was nervous, fine, I really care about him, its not the end of the world-yet, so I'll wait a little bit. He makes me feel good in every other way, so for now, its ok.
- Response by A Thinker, Female, 29-35
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