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Romance, I need help ladies, I can sense...
10:42 AM - Tuesday July 29, 2003

Romance, I need help ladies, I can sense...

Romance, I need help ladies, I can sense that my girlfriend is looking for more romance out of our relationship, (not that its bad or anything just more) and I was wondering what ideas you’d be able to give me, or things that guys have done for you, just some ideas to help me get my motor running in new directions, I’d like to stun her with romance three dates in a row, kinda knock her off her feet, thanks for the help

- Asked by A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 26-28, Detroit, Celebrity

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One day when she comes over to your house have rose petals from the door all the way to the bathroom and have candles all over in the bathroom but not to many. Have a nice warm bath running filled with rose petals. That is romantic. You can buy that kind of stuff at an exotic place. And it should not cost that much. But it will definetly knock her off her feet. And keep her coming back for more. -Good Luck-

- Response by selena08, A Hip Hop Girl, Female, 18-21, Washington, DC, Other Profession

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Try this....without warning. Treat her to lunch at her job. Just show up... with a bottle of wine, 1 rose. (Tell her it was the only rose that was prefect... just like her). Then follow up with a candle light diner at either her place or your. Complete with bubble bath ready for her.

My husband did that for me and it made me feel GREAT for months. My office still talks about it. And we've been married for 17 years. Plus with the bubble bath,...she might invite you IN.

- Response by A Married Girl, Female, 46-55, St.Louis, Administrative

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Hmm...One of my favorite...my guy pulled the candles, flowers and bath card but with a twist...Afterwards, he told me he wanted to paint me; literally. He sought out every freckle on my body and paid them verbal homage. He took his time as i kept reminding myself to breath...Needless to say, he gave me a memory that will forever be etched in my brain.

On another note, I loved the surprise weekend getaway. My friend surprised me with a boat trip to Catalina Island. He even found out my sizes and bought me a few clothing items. I was stunned silly and he made me feel like his princess. The hotel, massages facials...i was in heaven.

However, if you just want to kick up the romance, cooking together is wonderful. Theres something sexy about about a nice bottle of wine or champagne paired with whatever her favorite cuisine is while listening to a soothing, mellow cd in the background. It should be something that you two have not cooked before (it opens up all your senses and your palette). The mood should be light and fun. Believe me women all love a guy who likes to cook or learn new things in the kitchen. Anywho, hope this helps. Good Luck!

- Response by icesunstorm, A Player, Female, 26-28, Student

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You could try taking her away for a 3-day weekend at a romantic spot. This might be out of reach, but my boyfriend was living in Europe for a little while, and when I went to visit him, we went to this tiny Spanish country side town. It was by far the most romantic weekend of my life. We rented this incredible car, drove through the country side stopping whenever we felt like it, and then spent the whole weekend in this cozy little place in the mountains. It was great- we had breakfast in bed, drank wine, and sat by the fireplace, and took baths...

- Response by hermione207, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Atlanta, Student

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I would invite her to dinner at your place (if you cook) and eat there and then put some soft music and ask her to dance..

Maybe on the second date...pack up a picnic type lunch and go to a park and go and watch the sunset and then lay there and talk and star gaze.

Good Luck

- Response by massingcc23, A Sportif, Female, 26-28, Indianapolis

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