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Helps to determine interest. Or at least, receptivity.

If you don't care about being shot down all day long, you can just blunder up to any woman, anywhere, and talk to her. Some techniques encourage this because of the sheer numbers of approaches that will result- and practice makes perfect.

If you want to just get used to talking to girls for the sake of talking to girls, you can just go to a mall and ask every girl you see for the time, for directions, etc.

If you see a group of girls you could ask them if they like your outfit or something.. say you just bought it maybe. This would require dressing up somewhat. You could possibly work this approach into a conversation. However, groups are complex, you might want to stick to individuals.

One word of warning- lone women can find attention from men threatening. Try to approach women in well-populated, safe settings.

If you're worried about standoffishness.. well, as a girl, I can tell you that being bothering by men while I'm busy, or in a hurry, is going to make me somewhat curt with them.

You might want to try to talk to women in more relaxed settings, like at bars/clubs, in parks, at the grocery store, etc... casual public places where people are not generally in a huge hurry and have a few seconds to talk.

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