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Dating / 23 minutes ago Back To Top

i need to no the best way to get my ex boyfriend back

i need to have him back the amount of love i have for him just cant be let go. i need full complete steps of what to do that will make him come back. i think he still loves me but just not as much as he did. i need him i love him to much to lose him.

p.s dont respond if your going to say something stupid i dont need that thanks.

- Asked by ashleybby123, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, New York
Dating / 3 hours ago Back To Top

i went to a party last night and met a woman. i thought she was with a guy who was there

but she wasnt and left alone.

how do you ask the host if she was single? should i have asked her at the party if she was dating the other guy? i dont even have a phone number or a card for her..

- Asked by A Career Man, Male, 46-55, New York, Who Cares?
Dating / 3 hours ago Back To Top

If a coworker said this to you, how would you feel, how would you fee about his gf?

Today my male coworker came up to me with a box. I know he is a joker and I am sure he meant it as just a joke but he said to me hey this is for you and handed me my uniform pants and he said as you can see I didn't open it up so you can't say I have tried to get into your pants. I am not married and am much younger than him and know he has a gf of 3 years and I felt conflicted. Part of me knew it was a joke but part of me has heard him joke around before saying things in sexual nature to women joking. Thinks like secreatary was carring a box down the hall and he said hey didn't know you had such a big box. Then same girl was commenting on how this dress is unraveling at the hem and it is new and cost alot and he said well that is because I have been pulling at it with my teeth in my mind all day.

I guess I just wonder how his gf would feel about his "jokes" with the women at work. The other day they found a kid that was able to get on porn at the hosptial in the ER and he said gosh I wish I knew how he did that implying so he could jump on to watch it. I find his jokes kinda offensive for me but I also wonder how much respect he has for his gf saying things like that knowing he is in a relationship with her.

What do you think?

- Asked by Female, 36-45
Dating / 3 hours ago Back To Top

Repost b/c I only got one answer

I have a crush on a guy I know through Peace Corps. This is the first time I've been interested in someone new in years and I'm at the loss of what to do. One of the problems is that we don't see each other that often and it's never one-on-one. What kinds of intelligent/witty/spark ling things can I say the next time I talk to him that would get his attention and hopefully start to build a foundation? I'm super shy around guys so I know I need to come out of my shell but I don't want to go too far in the other direction and seem pushy.

Also, when I started PC, I was at my all-time highest weight. Thanks to tons of walking and not having as easy access to food, I've lost 30 pounds and I'm slim again. But I wonder if this guy is never going to be attracted to me because I was overweight when he met me and he won't be able to get the image out of his mind.

Update: November 07, 2009.
pobeech, I get what your saying, but just because I'm doing work I'm very dedicated to doesn't mean I want to go without sex and romantic companionship for the next few years. Even do-gooders have needs. lol.

- Asked by soccerchica, A Creative, Female, 22-25, Who Cares?
Dating / 3 hours ago Back To Top

How do I know if he feels more than close friends towards me?

He always know the right things to say to me though he doesn't look like a player - he's more keeping to himself than mingle with others unless someone sought him out first.
We can talk about anything - personal things like families, sports, music, movies. I feels more comfortable chatting with him compare to others, female and male alike. And he always a good listener - never interupt, give advices when I ask for them but he doesn't expect me to follow them (which I like).
Lately, he gives me nice compliments - my clothes, how I smell good, how sweet I am (which he always says either in person or messages) and latest one, he thinks I'm sexy (though maybe that's a joke?).
When it's just two of us, he seems can't keep his hands off me or somehow makes me touching him. It usually tap on my back or lightly brush his fingers on my clothes or teach me new stuffs like secret handshakes or tricks.
Often, after our bouts of teasing each other or just jokes around, his face will get redder as if he's blushing and has this silly grin or very big smile on his face.
I wish I know if he thinks me as a passing fancy or a mixture of sister-buddy or he starts to think me more than close friends.

- Asked by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 22-25, Other Profession
Dating / 3 hours ago Back To Top

I just do not know what to do.

I am a divorced 30 year old. I am attracted to and have had relationships with men, and have always been mildly attracted to women, but I have recently begun to find myself very attracted to a woman. But I have never approached a woman before, and I have no idea if she is attracted to me, or any woman for that matter.

What should I do? I am in need of serious advice.

- Asked by Female, 29-35
Dating / 5 hours ago Back To Top

I met this guy and he was very touchy and tried to kiss me numerous times without luck

This was only 1 day after I met him. I was not immediately interested. I thought he was so-so in the looks department. Not used to a guy being so forward. I didn't actually let him kiss me until a few weeks later. And now we've been dating for several years. He grew on me I guess, and now I think he's the hottest guy in the world. How did I not notice how attractive he was in the beginning? I have two questions:

1) Do most guys act so forward after JUST meeting you??

2) Have you completely fallen for someone whom you were not attracted to initially?

- Asked by A Career Woman, Female, 26-28
Dating / 6 hours ago Back To Top

How do you learn to trust someone again?

He doesnt give me any reason to trust him and his sisters friend keeps texting him and coming over when im not home.she is seeing his best friend and they both say they are just friends. ive never caught them doing anything it just pisses me off but every time i say something to either one of them they say i am being crazy. i feel as though this might end my relationship for good. so how can i trust that what he says is true?

- Asked by Female, 18-21
Dating / 7 hours ago Back To Top

Is a 20 pound weight loss noticeable if you aren't morbiliy obese?

Is a 20 pound weight loss noticeable if you aren't morbiliy obese? Just curious I'm going to see a friend I haven't seen in three months wondering if he will notice any.

- Asked by Female, 22-25
Dating / 8 hours ago Back To Top

An broken affair in a marriage

Against my better judgement and carried away by sweet magical words; after 20 years of marriage got into a temptesous affair. The world seemed so wonderful and it was like being young and in love all over again....but after three months or a whirlwind of romance, sweet nothings and days and days of loving...was dumped and everything ended abruptly. Unable to talk about it, with no coping mechanisms; am miserable and wondering if it was worth it at all. A boring and unglamorous marriage seems so much less painful than this...Hope not many have been here and wish not many will get here. Its awful.......when I see my H completely unaware of what I have done, or am going thru.....

- Asked by A Career Woman, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?