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Sex & Intimacy / 50 minutes ago Back To Top
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I can orgasm during oral but not when my boyfriends inside me, and it takes nearly an hour. help?

I can only orgasm when my boyfriend is giving me oral, but not when his finger is inside of me. This could potentially become problematic when we decide to have sex and i cant orgasm when hes inside. It also takes me nearly an hour to orgasm. Its exhausting!! any help?

- Asked by sexycani42508, A Thinker, Female, 18-21
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Sex & Intimacy / 1 hour ago Back To Top
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A Woman's Ultimate Fantasy...

In a recent on-line poll 38,562 men across the country were asked to identify a woman's ultimate fantasy.

98.8% of the respondents said that a woman's ultimate fantasy is to have two men at once.

While this has been verified by a recent sociological study, it appears that most men do not realize that in this fantasy, one man is cooking and the other is cleaning.

- Asked by themamu, A Guy Critical, Male, 56-65, Consulting
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Have you ever felt your partner's sexual pleasure was your "job"?

Lately I've been having this problem of not being in the mood for sex. After ruling out the usual reasons why this could be happening, I started to think and ended up with an idea, or rather a feeling, I don't like at all.

Turns out that some part of my brain considers sex something like a chore. Although, not sex exactly. It's my active role in sex that seems to be the problem. It's kind of hard to explain... I honestly enjoy what I do to her during foreplay. The same goes for sex and cuddling afterward. But lately (been together for 8 months now) I've been starting to feel like it's my duty to first get her all prepped and ready for sex, then give her a mind-blowing experience and finally cuddle her to sleep or whatever we do after. In retrospect, same thing happened with my ex, but since she seemed to not enjoy sex at all (current gf clearly does), I simply thought that was the reason and moved on. Now I obviously don't want to do this again, so I'm turning to all of you for advice. And I probably should add that this started happening once everything started to become really serious.

Did you ever have the feeling it's "your job" to make your partner have the time of their life every time? Did it make you lose interest in sex? What did you do to get rid of this feeling?

Update: November 20, 2009.
Thanks for all your advice and opinions so far, but some answers make me think I wasn't completely clear. I DO give it my best and she DOES enjoy it. She also DOES reciprocate gladly and fully. It's not one-sided. I thought I was clear when I said that I do sincerely enjoy everything we do. 30 min of foreplay seems the average length and I don't mind it. Usually our whole sex-thing takes from 1-2hrs. Can't remember the last time it was under one hour. And obviously I also like that It's simply the feeling that it's not supposed to feel like something you have to do but something you want to do. The problem is here: If we have a quickie I'll start getting the feeling that I'm just using her even though I'll rationally know it's not true. THAT'S what I wanna get rid of.

- Asked by windlord, A Guy Critical, Male, 22-25, Student
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Sex & Intimacy / 3 hours ago Back To Top
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Any advice for a guy in a relationship with a sex performer at a chat site ? How to find out if.....

she's honest and for real ?

- Asked by A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45
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Sex & Intimacy / 3 hours ago Back To Top
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a question re oral sex

do most people use a condom when having oral sex (heterosexual relationship with new person)ie: blow jobs

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 29-35
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Sex & Intimacy / 3 hours ago Back To Top
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How many boners do you get in a given day?

Question for the guys obviously. But if you women think you get them too join in. :D

- Asked by ellekassia26, A Creative, Female, 26-28, Artist / Musician / Writer
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Sex & Intimacy / 4 hours ago Back To Top
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Ladies when was the last time you sucked dick? Guys when was the last you sucked labia?

You saw the question. When was the last time you your mouth was on someone's nether region?

Update: November 20, 2009.
I licked some last night and damn she liked it! After about 15 mins she was ready for the main course.

- Asked by newnumbersguy32, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Financial / Banking
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Come on guys take one for the team!

Who is going to throw one her way?

- POP'd by newnumbersguy32, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Financial / Banking

Why won't anyone have sex with me?

No one likes hanging out with me and people spread rumors behind my back, and they all say I'm too fat and ugly to ever have a boyfriend.

The closest thing I ever got to having sex as when a guy took me out on a date to the cinema and touched my breasts in underneath my bra. Then he never called back.

He later admitted to people that he only went out with me because he'd never been on a date before and was just using me as practice.

Why am I so undesirable?

- Asked by An Alternative Girl, Female, 18-21
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Sex & Intimacy / 5 hours ago Back To Top
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Why won't anyone have sex with me?

No one likes hanging out with me and people spread rumors behind my back, and they all say I'm too fat and ugly to ever have a boyfriend.

The closest thing I ever got to having sex as when a guy took me out on a date to the cinema and touched my breasts in underneath my bra. Then he never called back.

He later admitted to people that he only went out with me because he'd never been on a date before and was just using me as practice.

Why am I so undesirable?

- Asked by An Alternative Girl, Female, 18-21
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Another friday question for the girls......

Say you are having sex.....and he finishes....and has filled up you honey hole....with his goo....

Now it's time to run to the restroom to clean up....

Do you put your panties back on first.....

Just take off and hope for the best.....

Put your hand down there in case some spillage takes place.....

Lay right there and make him clean you.....

Other.....

Doesn't it just suck when your doing the closed leg waddle and it happens to spill back out all over the carpet....

- Asked by lab01, A Father Figure, Male, 36-45, St.Louis, Other Profession
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